What is the last love for a man. Love is evil? The opinion of men! That is, attraction is purely physical.

Arguing about what is the main thing in love and what love is is a senseless and stupid activity. After all, each person has his own character, his thoughts and views, and, accordingly, ideas about love.

Basically, women imagine love as a relationship between two people, respect and understanding - this is the main thing in love in the opinion of women. According to women's logic, a man must protect a woman, protect, etc., etc. Such female opinions do exist. And they are quite justified. A woman always wants to hear pleasant words in her direction, she likes to receive gifts from a loved one, she likes it when she is looked after and protected. And this is correct, whatever one may say, a woman is a weaker sex. Receiving presents from her beloved man, a woman is once again convinced that he loves her, for her this is the main thing in love. Based on this, we can conclude that the gift itself is not important for a woman, but the fact of the gift is important.

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And the question arises: What, in the opinion of men, is the main thing in love.

This question is difficult to answer. How many men on the planet, so many opinions. But, in principle, they are all similar. For some, the main thing is that a woman loves him, for someone sex is important and nothing more, but someone needs a housewife who will cook dinner and iron a shirt.

All of these masculine approaches to love are fair and reasonable. After all, a woman is always more open than a man. Accordingly, it will be more difficult for a man to confess love than for a woman. He is afraid of being rejected. And to avoid rejection, he looks at how the woman treats him. If a woman does not react to him in any way, then the man will try not to build a relationship with such a woman. This is certainly not a fact, there are many types of men. Someone will be silent, and someone will seek the woman's attention by any means. But that's basically how it happens.

Among women, there is an opinion that men only need sex. To some extent, this statement is true, but in the opinion of men, this is not the main thing in love. For a man, the choice of his companion is much easier. But, according to men, if there is no sex in a relationship, then most likely there will be no relationship. Well, if a relationship does appear, then for sure, a man, over time, will have a mistress, or maybe not one.

There are, of course, men whose sex is an order of magnitude lower than the relationship between a man and a woman. According to such men, the main thing in love is trust. I repeat once again that how many men are on the planet, there are so many opinions about what they value in love.

Also, men respect a woman, for respecting him. In other words, according to men, a woman should take her place, and their place in the kitchen. Of course, this is a conventional place and it is simply said so, but no matter how rude it sounds now, it is a fact. Although a man may not force him to obey him, to do something for him, but if a woman strokes his shirt, she will rise in the man's eyes. And if she cooks well, then this will be just an excellent criterion when choosing a woman as a man. As the saying goes: "The way to a man's heart is through the stomach."

There is a type of men who fall in love with women who are similar to their mothers, for them the main thing in love is a simple external resemblance. Similar, both in appearance and character. This is due to the fact that most men are looking for not just a beloved woman, but already a companion, bride, wife and mother of his future children. And, for a man, without realizing it, all associations with the mother of his children and his wife are his own mother.

No less important points in a love relationship that men pay attention to is respect for his interests. According to men, this is very important in love. In his understanding, if a woman respects and shares his passions and interests, then she is more suitable for him. And the most important thing is, of course, loyalty to him. It's not even worth talking about this, because having changed, at least once, a woman, in the eyes of a man, she falls very much. For him, she becomes not a woman of his life, but a woman of easy virtue.

In general, there are a lot of criteria for a man's choice of a woman, and the moments that men value most in a love relationship. According to men, the main thing in love is sex, trust, looks and much more, and they are all very different. For example, the first man wants his woman to look dazzling and for all other men to drop their jaws, and the second wants his woman to look modest, so as not to attract too much attention from the male side.

Until now, we talked about your feelings and how you need to communicate with a man. Today I propose to look at what is happening between a man and a woman from the perspective of the other side - after all, it is no secret that the same things are perceived and evaluated differently by a man and a woman.

So how does he feel? What's going on in his soul? How does he react to what you do? Admit it, it interests you a lot. Today we will try to look into the male soul and learn the first lessons. We use my experience in advising men, the opinions expressed by them, observing their reactions in different situations and formulate conclusions that will help both of you to harmonize your relationship.

First lesson. He prefers to live for today.

That is why often in the process of establishing mutual understanding, developing relationships, the initiative comes mainly from the woman. Men treat these laces with disdain: “They always complicate everything. I feel good with her, and she is trying to make a husband out of me. Why rush things so fast? Why doesn't she like the way things are going now? "

Men, as a rule, are in no hurry to analyze their feelings, just as they are not always interested in evaluating your feelings for themselves. Very often they are guided by the principle “Everything is good, and thank God”, that is, the development of feelings, building relationships are clearly not among their main concerns.

At the same time, a man may strive to see you quite often, communicate with you, feel your closeness, and have sex. However, instead of asking “Is this true love? Is there something on which to build a long-term relationship? Am I wasting my time? " a man says to himself: "We are good together, but whether it is love or not is the tenth thing." In other words, a man much more often lives in the present day and wants to have fun, and not bother with any useless "philosophy."

Output. This peculiarity of the perception of life is really worth learning from a man! And what a sin to conceal, we often try to solve the problem of our whole life at once. And then at the reception I hear such questions: "We have been meeting for three weeks, but I do not understand what is between us!" Who cares if everything is fine today? And tomorrow will be tomorrow.

Lesson two. He has no burning need to see you every day.

And even when he is really in love with you - he just is so arranged.

And yet, in two cases, the man wants you to be always there and every day. First, when he is afraid of losing you. And then it doesn't matter whether he is offended at you, whether he is angry, whether he thinks you are guilty around, he still thinks: “I don’t want to lose her. She may not be right, but I will do as she wants. I'll meet her once again. "

The second option is when you “do not give” yourself to him. You don't fly to him at the first call, sometimes you leave him earlier than he would like. You are busy and for this reason refuse to accept his invitation ... In this sense, the words of my client are indicative: “I guess I love Galya. Before, I didn’t know how to send the girls out on Sunday evening, and when Galya leaves me on Sunday morning, I so want her to stay, I’m trying my best to keep her. ”

Output. Help him want to see you more often. Don't rush to him at night on demand. You must admit that everything tastes much better on an empty stomach than when you overeat.

Lesson three. What is love for him?

This is not about what a man thinks when he says "I love you." It is possible that he uses these words for manipulation in order to achieve no matter what: desired sex, forgiveness for some mistake, or maybe so that you just don't leave him now ...

We are interested in what constitutes a real, sincere love of a man. As a rule, it is based on three senses.

The first is the fear of losing you. But here you need to understand that in itself, apart from other feelings, it is not love. For some, it may be caused by a fear of loneliness associated with self-doubt, or by materialistic considerations. To become love, it needs the support of the following two senses.

The second component of love is pity and a desire to take care of you.
A man will never tell himself that he loves you if he does not feel sorry for you. For a man, love is closely related to the desire to protect his beloved, to worry about her, to try in every possible way to make her life easier, to take care of her. If a man is just glad that he did something good to a woman, and he does not really need her thanks and praise, then he most likely loves her.

Here are the words of a man in love heard at the reception: “I am pleased to do a lot for her that I would never have done for anyone. I am so sad when she feels bad, and very good at heart when she is happy. " When a man perceives a situation this way, he is really ready to admit to himself that he loves you.

And finally, the third feeling underlying male love is admiration for you. It, however, is most clearly manifested at the initial stage of falling in love or in a situation of unrequited love. Sometimes a lack of admiration is not an indicator that love has passed: it can be associated with bad mood, trouble, depression. But in such cases, the man does not admire other women either. That is, either you (your devotion, your understanding, beauty, charm, etc.), or no one.

It must be admitted that it is difficult to maintain a sense of admiration when you know each other "as flaky", with all the advantages and disadvantages. But at this stage it is replaced by tenderness and affection, and thus male love is still based on the "three whales."

Output. Don't let the man feel like he has conquered you once and for all. Even if you are very strong and independent, sometimes pretend to be weak and helpless. Or don't be afraid to show yourself like that - let him feel strong, realize his "defender complex". Try to remain admirable even if you've been together for a long time. Moreover, in this case, you should know better than others what exactly is capable of delighting your man.

Most women really don't know how to tell if they are loved. Even the wise Mademoiselles are barely familiar with the main qualities of male love. But what about young naive girls? After all, they absolutely do not understand how to distinguish a woman's true love for a man from sweet pleasures. Let's try to figure it out.

Unfortunately, women and men see love differently. At times, this becomes a serious cause for disagreement. However, do not forget that the feeling of falling in love is one for two. It's just that a man and a woman are two different galaxies. Nature conceived us as mutually attractive plus and minus. One thing remains unchanged - we, of course, always need one another! Unfortunately, in love, we express our emotions in completely different languages. That is why it is so difficult to reach mutual understanding at times.

Diametrical opposites

A woman needs constant communication with a man. It is extremely important for her to evoke emotions in him, which is direct evidence of falling in love. No wonder they say: "If a woman stops dripping on her brains, you have already lost her." A man, on the other hand, keeps everything inside himself, trying to seem indifferent! He decisively does not perceive constant conversations, declarations of love. In the formed couple, one always loves, and the other allows to love. It is no wonder that it is mainly a woman who shows feelings. Since ancient times, nature has insidiously laid this need in it. A couple who knows and accepts this fact can avoid unnecessary quarrels and resentments in the future.

Recognition of your feelings causes a genuine fear of responsibility in the stronger sex. For most, the response to this phrase is equivalent to an oath. A truly loving man will sincerely rejoice at the achievements of his beloved, appreciate aspirations, and take the solution of any problems upon himself. A man's love for a woman can be expressed in the time devoted. As a rule, ladies rarely see this as a demonstration of feelings.

Expectations from developing relationships are also different. For example, women want to feel attention, care, tenderness and respect from their man. And a strong half of humanity wants to be perceived only as they are. Therefore, lovers try to provide each other with what they themselves desire. Unfortunately, this is a false path to the opponent's heart. Do not forget that even being together, we are still completely different.

Keeping relationships safe is hard work!

Naturally, disagreements also occur in daily relationships. For example, women, in the eyes of men, need attention over trifles. Due to the firmness of their character, they are absolutely immune to such trifles. However, understanding this fact sometimes requires serious consideration. A woman suffering from a lack of attention, over time, becomes irritable, nervous. As a result, any communication with a man will suffer, or it will result in a search for attention on the side.

And yet, how is the love of a woman and a man expressed? A further difference is a consequence of the phrase "A man loves with his eyes, a woman with his ears." It is for this reason that it is easy to captivate a lady with sweet words, and a gentleman cannot fail to notice the harmony of long legs. Accordingly, in order for him to stop looking around, there must be a sexy, exciting woman with him. Relationship psychologists have long confirmed that male sexual attraction and falling in love are completely different parts of the brain. Based on this, polygamy is inherent in a man. He believes that his masculinity is expressed in the number of women.

Due to the work of different parts of the brain, attitudes towards physical intimacy in women and men are also different. For the weaker sex, sex is a kind of process that requires a serious approach to choosing a partner. In a man's mind, love and sex are not equal! At times, even the most faithful man is looking for intimate sensations on the side. Unfortunately, physiology is to blame for everything. Mutual understanding is out of the question here!

Everyone knows that one hundred percent male compatibility is a guarantee of a strong relationship. Moreover, the main role here is played not only by sexual, but also by natural and psychological compatibility. Over the years, sexual attraction actually does not play a special role. Unfortunately, love does not at all provide mutual understanding and support in everyday life. Misunderstandings can destroy any idyll in a relationship, fueling conflict. It takes a lot of effort to get even a little closer to mutual understanding.

Character

To identify compatibility, describe the different personality traits in two columns. In the first, indicate all the positive qualities of the partner, in the second, record what is annoying. Think about where you are ready to give in, and what does not suit your partner at all. However, there is one condition. Evaluation should be impartial and not based on emotions alone. Psychologists advise doing such a test together with a partner. Perhaps after comparing the overall results, you will be able to come to a mutual decision.

Psychology

It can be identified as follows. List your values \u200b\u200bon a piece of paper in descending order. In other words, the most significant indicators are: family, friends, work, funds. Further, each of the partners separately lists all responsibilities with their own understanding of the situation. The test is formed in the similarity of its results, and not in the coincidence of all points. It is good if a man supported women's views on love, relationships. A woman is then ready to create a real happy relationship. If one of the partners put family first, and the other - a career, then this is a serious reason for conflicts, contradictions.

Partnership

Affiliate compatibility is a key indicator of overall budgeting ability. Financial mismatch of partners will lead to significant contradictions. Agree, if the budget of the chosen one consists exclusively of spending on himself, you are unlikely to like this situation. In this case, psychologists also advise each of the partners to plan a budget on a piece of paper. Then compare the results of your lists, focusing not on contradictions but on similarities. However, one should not forget that full compatibility cannot be achieved without the unity of interests.

Temperament

Undoubtedly, romantic walks with your beloved, his ability to provide you is wonderful. However, this is not enough! The guarantee of a happy, lasting relationship lies in the compatibility of sexual temperaments. In addition to pleasant sensations and health benefits, sex can resolve almost any conflict. Also, a curious theory that depends on the zodiacal horoscope enjoys a positive reputation. Perhaps you should pay attention to your partner's date of birth?

Basic principles of temperaments

Temperaments should be at least adjacent. For example, if a man is high and a woman is low, the relationship will be on the brink of failure. The same situation develops when a man and a woman switch roles. Partners will constantly feel uncomfortable. They will feel that something is wrong with them.

People with a high temperament score have a constant desire. Usually their experimental sex life begins at an early age, and the number of partners grows throughout life. Statistically, the height of a temperamental man is usually no more than average. It looks quite proportional. As for women, those with wide hips or curvy shapes are also often very temperamental women. Ladies of short stature and short legs are also not bad in bed.

Researchers claim that similar temperaments are characteristic of people with similar heights. So petite girls shouldn't look for a partner among tall men. Such couples often face various difficulties in sex.

For those with a low type of temperament, intimate life always takes an insignificant place. The process of puberty in such people is usually delayed. They easily tolerate significant pauses in sex. And if once they have chosen a partner, then this is for life.

According to statistics, about 80% of humanity belongs only to the middle group. For example, high growth clearly indicates an insufficiently bright temperament.

What is absolute love?

The feeling of love is not limited exclusively to the relationship between a man and a woman. It can be much broader. This is how the love of women and men is presented by esotericism. Most of the world's religions are built on absolute love. Take, for example, Christianity in the image of Jesus Christ, where one of the three virtues, along with Faith and Hope, is Love. It can be called Agape, which in translation from the ancient Greek language means "free, selfless love." It does not manifest itself as a physical passion, but is based on a spiritual connection that lasts for years, or even to the very deathbed.

The mistakes of our time

There is too much masculine energy in women today. They have forgotten how to love! Due to the weakened energy necessary for procreation, the fair sex began not to inspire, but to give. They forgot, women and men! If a man wants to win the love of a woman, he must win the battle in her eyes. And a woman, in order to take possession of a man's heart, needs to lose this battle.

For example, a woman's destructive love for a man can manifest itself in over-caring for her son. In this case, the mother interferes with the correct development of the masculine principle. Or the wife, confusing the relationship with her husband, turns into a parting "mommy". Such a manifestation of energy is a masculine version of creation. A woman should be a faithful wife and helper for her husband. Undoubtedly, the distortion of energies entails a violation of the correct interchange. Actually, that's why there are so many disagreements between a woman and a man.

Energy interchange

If a woman accepts her lover without unnecessary reasoning, she awakens in him a desire to give the strength of her feelings. A woman's love for a man is based on 4 energies: respect, patience, humility, tenderness. When a woman radiates the appropriate energies, she inspires her man to be generous. In addition, an invisible energy-protective field literally forms around him, feeding the forces. Such a field is able to protect the success of a man, his emotional balance.

Men to women are manifested in bestowal. He is obliged to give his beloved his care, funds and shelter. However, when a man does not receive returns, he stops giving, starting to accumulate. A strong half of humanity desperately needs a woman not to educate, but to love and accept the chosen one as they are.

A man and a woman are a reflection of each other. Such a crooked mirror reflects everything that no one wants to know about themselves.

Natural needs

A woman expects to see in a man a breadwinner, protector, support. He, in turn, expects tenderness and care from her. In order to complement each other, everyone is looking for in a partner those qualities that he himself does not have. As the representatives of the gentle sex do not recognize weak men, also the powerful do not perceive this. So in what, in fact, is the true love of a woman and a man expressed? She needs protection, and he needs faith in him, only in this case we can feel loved.

The idea of \u200b\u200bnature is such that man and woman understand love in different ways, striving for a common goal. This is why it is extremely important to take into account our dissimilarity. Unfortunately, we rarely have the prudence to understand that we are two diametrical opposites. Therefore, we do not stop waiting for one another from a mirror analogy in opinions, assessments and explanations of everything that happens. So what should you do? How to understand what is the true love of a woman for a man? You just need to notice exceptionally good qualities in the chosen one, paying less attention to the shortcomings. Be patient, do not break, but accept in your partner the essence that is inherent in nature. Love and be happy!

Love in a man's life. Love psychology.

Misconception! You cannot say that men are not capable of love. They are capable of a lot. And, as for love, they, unlike women, have a different attitude to this feeling.

If they love, they can love in silence. If they love, they can talk about love as they can, without being ashamed of the fact that they cannot write and speak beautifully. They are sure: no matter how they say about feelings, women will appreciate every word they say.

A man wants love just like women. They are pleased when they are loved. They are pleased when they hear about it, as often as possible. Messages, letters, and words are "pleasantries" for men.

A man wants love. Psychology of men in love. Male psychology.

Men are waiting for love, but, with its search, it is more difficult for them than for women. They are not sure of themselves, therefore, the option "to meet on the street" confuses and horrifies them. Saves the Internet. After all, you can not show yourself in it, or put, on an avatar, not your photo, but whatever you like. When a man falls in love, he is ready for anything. And he shows "not himself" because he thinks: his beloved will be frightened. It's funny…. After all, a man is not at all scary, but even very handsome. For some reason, males think that women need men who are similar to Brad Pitt or some other "coloring book". But these "delusions" are not enough for everyone. It is a pity that not all men know that women are eager to meet just a good person, even without a "star" appearance. Beauties, unlike men, first pay attention to their inner qualities, and then they “bite” at their appearance. Although, some "sink" into the contents of the wallet, and other "man's wealth".

Men know how to wear and give gifts and compliments. True, they, most often, do this during courtship, until they "conquer" the woman. How do they conquer it? Someone talks about how much money he has. Someone says that they know how to cook perfectly. Someone hints: "and I have a registry office very close to home." In general, everyone is leading the "conquest" process as best they can. What's most interesting is that ninety-five percent of the time, men win.

For the fact that men remember about gifts only on March 8, many women are offended and angry with them. And men, in turn, want to make it clear that for them, women's holiday is also a holiday. And they celebrate it "more noticeably" than the female half of the planet.

Sex in love, for a man, is very important. Much more important than for a woman. He cannot but possess a body that is not indifferent to him. Every intimate moment associated with his lady of the heart is of great importance to him.

The psychology of male love - original and interesting. Sometimes, she knows how to shock. A man in love is sleeping, he is dreaming of a beloved woman, he wants to see and feel her next to him.

For a man, love is important. Sexual play and intimacy are more important to him. Women are very offended by men for this. But you need to be offended by instincts. This is how men are arranged: it is hard for them to live without an intimate person. But women also enjoy sex. And they have a "headache" because they often lack romance in a relationship. And romance, men, is not so necessary. A romantic breakfast, dinner or lunch decorated with candles is beautiful, but when a man comes back from work, tired, he sees only dishes prepared by a woman and a woman. And candles and everything else is "inaccessible" to his eyes, due to his fatigue.

If a man, on something, did not pay attention, this does not mean at all that he has lost interest in a dear and desired woman. Men have one feature: in a very tired "state", they notice only what, according to their rank, is "in the first place": sex, woman and food. Decorations, hairstyles, make-up are secondary that he can only notice when he is less tired.

If a man claims to have strong love for several women, he cannot be trusted: you can love only one and only one with your heart. At the sight of a beautiful girl, in a mini-skirt, with magnificent breasts, a man, for a moment, can “forget” about love. Beauty strikes on the spot men. They are so arranged and they, from this, "cannot be cured."

It may seem to a woman that her “unique” loves TV, cars and football more. He's a fan of it all. And love and fanaticism are different things, which are better not to be confused, so as not to catch the beloved, in all mortal sins.

A man hit a woman - he is not a man! And a woman, in spite of love, should not forgive such "crimes". If, after a blow, a man begs for forgiveness, and "crucifies" in conversations about love - do not give in to this! No, in that case, no real feelings! If a man (no matter in what state) raised a hand at a woman, or at least swung, he will do this more than once. Many women walk in "bruises and abrasions of love" and endure everything to be close to a man, from whom they are more than crazy.

Love in a man's life. Love psychology of men in love.

When a man loves, he will always look for "pluses" in relatives and friends of the one to whom he gave his heart. He will not freak out and blame her that her relatives have so many shortcomings. A man knows: there are no perfect people without negatives and flaws.

Man in love, psychology of behavior:

1. Never offend a loved one. He will, endlessly, whisper tender and affectionate words to her, sing love songs (even if he cannot sing).
2. Will not do what gets on her nerves. A man may not know about the "non-recovery" of nerve cells. But, everyone understands that being nervous is very harmful.
3. Learn to cook so that your beloved can rest more, and not stand at the stove all the time. Gold is not a man! It is a pity that not everyone is like that.
4. He will write thousands of messages a day and send them to his mobile phone. Expensive? What could be more precious than his beloved?

For a loved one, a man, will do everything. Even more than everything. He will never demand to do something in return, never reproach for little things.

He will take care of her so that not a single hair will fall from her head. By the way, about the hair. He, with great pleasure, will brush her hair in the morning. A man doesn't want to be a hairdresser. He, simply, dreams of participating in every “event” in the life of his own woman.

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Love is evil? The opinion of men!

Men are the eternal mystery of nature. Restrained, closed, mysterious. Do they think about the loving principle? And if so, what exactly do they think? Interestingly, men's thoughts about such a sublime feeling as love are cynical or, on the contrary, romantic? The editorial staff of WomanJournal.ru decided to arrange interrogation for men with addiction!

About love: the opinion of a conservative man

Vadim, 27 years old. Not stupid, uncompromising, eloquent, conservative. I loved.

Tell me, Vadim, do men think about love?

By itself. We just don't admit it. For some reason, it is considered that this is not courageous. But in fact, we guys sometimes start to torment ourselves with “eternal questions” about what love is and what it is eaten with.

And what is love?

Extreme feeling. The affection is so strong that you begin to literally feel the person you love. You catch the slightest changes in his mood, unravel his innermost desires, feel that in a sense this person is an extension of you, that is, your second self.

Is love for men pleasure or punishment?

The punishment you enjoy.

No, I could not love a girl who is not decent enough, moral and in general. For me, the first thing is spiritual beauty. If she is not there, then no matter what figure and face she has, I will not be able to take her seriously.

Do you believe in eternal love?

By itself! True love should be eternal. And if love has passed, then it was not love, but love. As a matter of fact, love and being in love are one and the same process, but the result is different. True, only mutual love can claim to be eternal. Nonreciprocal, fortunately, most often goes away.

Love: the opinion of a cynical man

Ivan, 21 years old. Charming, cynical, skeptic. Did not love.

Tell me, Ivan, do you believe in the love of men?

Why?

Because I don't want to believe in her. Too many problems from this feeling.

How do you know if you didn't love?

I look at others, how they are tormented by no one knows what, and I do not see anything good in this.

Love is blind?

Did you love the goat?

And the goat?

Never mind. Let's admit. But I repeat once again, this is not love. There is no love, there is an attraction that just had to be called beautifully somehow. So they called him love.

What does attraction mean?

Well, procreation, I guess. How do animals act there, choose the female who, in their opinion, can best continue the race? Likewise, men unconsciously choose the girl who is best suited in this sense. But this is not love.

That is, attraction is purely physical?

Is not a fact. After all, animals also go through a period of flirting, courtship and all that.

Do you believe in eternal love?

Why?

I have not seen such cases.

Are you ready to sacrifice in the name of love?

Well ... (this question particularly puzzles him, he plunges into gloomy silence for a long time) Well, maybe. But from the tenth floor I would not jump, I would not give up my habits, I would not change my life ... In general, I would not do anything, I would not sacrifice anything. (Laughs) Probably, after this interview with me, no girl wants to mess with ...

So you only answered like that to shock you?

No, I really think so.

And you can honestly answer that you told the truth, only the truth and nothing but the truth?

Well, no one but me will recognize this ...

Love: the opinion of a romantic man

Alexander, 24 years old. Kind, harmless, sincere, open. I loved.

Sasha, how many times have you loved?

Twice.

That is, you believe in love from a man?

Is love for a man a pleasure or a punishment?

Both. The punishment is jealousy and restriction of freedom. When you walk, for example, down the street with her, there are a lot of beautiful girls around, and you are busy ... This is punishment, and everything else is a pleasure.

Love is blind?

No. If you fell in love with a girl, then she cannot be a “goat”, even if you later become disappointed in her. It was your choice anyway. It's not for nothing that you chose her. And everyone has their own shortcomings. The girl I can choose should be like me. Should be my other half.

But you say you already loved twice. So what happens, you have a lot of potential halves?

No, it's just that the first girl was something of a perfection, and when I lost her, I was looking for someone like her for many years. And when he finally found it, this second girl overshadowed the first. She turned out to be even better ...

Do you believe in the eternal love of men?

Guys are capable of this, but girls are not. (Such an attack on the fair sex makes me speechless for a moment - Author's note).

How is it?

Well, I do not know. But for some reason you always leave us. What is it for?..

Why would you never forgive your girlfriend?

Treason and lies. I really appreciate honesty in a girl. If she can confess her mistakes to me in person, then this is a very big plus. This increases the chance that I will forgive her. After all, if she confessed to me everything herself, it means that she understood her mistake, then she will not repeat it again.

These are the different opinions. Some of the men think that love is strength, someone considers it a manifestation of weakness. Another thing is important: love is a feeling that affects absolutely everyone. In general, girls, relax, guys think about it too! So dare, love! Love is, of course, risk, danger, a walk on the razor's edge, tango on the edge of an abyss. But does life make sense without love?