Stories about childbirth. Positive stories about childbirth. Different birth histories. Memories of childbirth

The day began as usual - I took the children to the kindergarten, went to work, got a little muddied in the minibus, decided it was because of hunger ..

I worked it out, I was going home - I was sick again, I thought I was tired. I went into the store, at the checkout it became frankly bad, while I finished it, while I paid - everything came out green, there were flies in my eyes, my legs could hardly hold.

I called my husband - I arrived, we went, took the children, came home, began to cook dinner. We got a herring out of the refrigerator - it turns me on, doubts crept into my soul. Panicky thought - pregnant again? The husband is in a stupor. It was on March 1st.

We talked all night, decided not to spoil the holiday and buy the test only on the 9th. On March 4th, there is a delay of 3 days, I can't stand it and buy a test. Positive, I'm hysterical - trying to smoke - nauseous, throwing cigarettes out the window. I called my husband and asked to come - I arrived, showed the test. There is mourning on his face, joy is poorly hidden in his eyes. In response to the question "What to do?" I hear a purely male answer: "It's up to you! I will support any of your decisions."

I roar, I go online, looking for types of abortions - I found it, read it, I sit roaring. I called my friends, they say: "Give birth"!

A month of agonizing thoughts, tears and hysterics. She signed up for an abortion 3 times, and canceled the appointment three times. It's scary to look at my husband. Finally the decision was made - LET'S BIRTH OF THE THIRD!

According to my calculations, it is already 6 weeks, I have to go, get registered. I do not understand why I am pulling ... Finally, I go, thanks to my gynecologist - she does not ask unnecessary questions and silently writes me directions for tests. I hand over everything, it takes another month. At 12 weeks, I finally got registered.

The first ultrasound - the fetus is alive, it develops normally. The next ultrasound is at 18 weeks, we decide not to tell our parents yet - they will eat it. I am rapidly gaining weight - my husband constantly jokes that we are missing only heterosexual twins. At 13 weeks, a belly appears - I begin to seriously suspect twins. I went to a friend's work, a friend joked: "Maybe you have two of them there"?

They asked my daughter who she wants more - the answer almost finished me off: "My own sister, and Tolia's brother!" We are going to the second ultrasound scan with the whole family, already suspecting what we will see there. I left my dad and Tolya on the site, and Stasya and I went for an ultrasound scan. She got naked, lay down, we look - a minute of silence, two, time drags on, and then the question: "Sasha, are you lying there comfortably?" I ask: "What, two"? Answer: "Yes, placentas are different - they can be different sexes."

We return to dad - he understood everything without words. The floor of the park turned on his wild URA.

Then there was the abuse of my mother, many tears and worries - but all this was no longer important !!! WE WILL HAVE TWINS !!! The rest of us didn't care.

Everything goes on as usual, I work, I do practice, I write a master's thesis, I pass a lot of tests. We learned from a geneticist that our twins are still heterosexual, and our forecasts are wonderful !!!

The pregnancy was very easy, I was warned that at 32 weeks I go to preservation. We are celebrating my 25th birthday - none of my relatives congratulated me, it hurts me, but I hold on - I have such a wonderful family.

My mother came to Stasin's birthday, brought her sister Katya. We spoke for the first time in 3 months. Everything is slowly getting better, the relationship is not the same, but the acute period is over.

On October 3, I lay down to save. The master's thesis is partly written, partly bought, I'm almost ready for the state, things for childbirth are collected, the names have long been chosen - we are waiting. I must do everything: the state on the 11th, the defense on the 18th, the PDR - on November 7th.

Opening 5 cm, I get ginipral dripping - I have to inform at least until 37 weeks, I'm going to the exam - they turn me back half way, everyone around them jokes that I will give birth on defense. They call from the institute and ask them not to come to the defense - enough work.

On October 19, my husband and I decided to celebrate my "defense" went for a walk in the park. We walked around, bought some goodies, and at five o'clock he brought me back to the ward, and he himself went to the children. We had a wonderful dinner, cracked some goodies and solved a crossword puzzle in anticipation of the evening round .. One of the girls actively counts the time between contractions. Something squeezed and released me, after a while again. I look at the clock - 19.55, at 20.00 it is repeated.

I began to collect things slowly. The contractions began to intensify rapidly, went to the post, called the nurse, They did not believe it and said to go to bed. She reminded me that it was my third childbirth, and even twins - both of them rushed from the place of the doctor. The doctor came, looked - the disclosure was 8 cm, was surprised that I did not hurt. They packed my things, went to the top, called my husband, turned on the music, walk, sing - they look at me as if I was crazy.

My husband came, my grandmother called, I talked to her, and then I feel - I'm grieving !!! I call the doctors - they do not believe, they say that if I grieved, I would already cry. But still they look. Complete discovery - we are giving birth !!! The husband began to help him - to keep his legs, after 2 attempts Ruslana was born! They laid it on my stomach, gave my daddy the umbilical cord, said that now there will be a break, about half an hour. But I am grieving again, and after 2 more attempts, Timokha is born with the handle forward !!! Doctors are shocked! The midwife laughs, they say, he pushed his sister under the ass. Dad cut the umbilical cord and put his son to the sis !!!

They took the children to wash and weigh, dad went to supervise this process, and they examined me, said there were no breaks, injected oxytocin and, FINALLY, LEFT REST !!! While I was resting, my dad was busy with the kids, and two hours later we got to know the neighbors in the ward.

That's how there were six of us!

Hi, my name is Camilla, 24 years old, second pregnancy, first pregnancy - 5 years old daughter I had PDR on December 23rd. On...

How I gave birth to my daughter at 27

My name is Arina, I am 27 years old! First pregnancy! My husband and I were planning a child, so I did the tests almost 2 days later, although I realized that it was too early! I really felt that this is what happened ...

My first pregnancy, my first birth

My name is Madina. I am 25 years old. This is my first pregnancy. Oh, and my childbirth was not easy ... Let's start with the fact that I had PDD 2. According to the last menstruation it was 15.12, and according to the first ultrasound - 27.12. But I'm last ...

My childbirth (Julia)

I must say that the head began to sink so well a couple of days before giving birth. We had just moved into a new house and were busy cleaning and disassembling boxes. The constant upright position and inclinations apparently helped the baby well and soon lower it ...

Third birth (already in the hospital) through the eyes of dad

Perhaps, after a few days after giving birth, I will hurry up and write a little about them, while the memories are still ...

Cloning machine. Second birth, Alexk

My second pregnancy was fairly easy and was almost identical to the first. At first, I really hoped for a girl, as the first son. But fate decided otherwise, and now I have 2 golden sons. I am very pleased. At 37 weeks, the doctor ...

About chocolate candy Tayu-Tayusha (Iliya)

I'll tell you about the birth of our Taiska. The pregnancy was difficult: I was sick until 18 weeks, at 19 the cervix opened, at 26, edema began, and I was put on storage. Millien pills, round the clock drip ...

My impetuous labor (waiting)

I was looking forward to the day of birth, the PDR was at 28.12, but I wanted to give birth before 21.12 to get on Sagittarius, as time went on, my stomach periodically pulled, but it was all wrong, I put up with Capricorn, but I really didn't want to be on NG ...

My "refusal" from hospitalization_Ramashka_0209

So, on 03.02, I came to my housing complex for a referral for a planned hospitalization in the maternity hospital, they said it was necessary, and not because ...

These funny-funny births or the Princess are with us! (Montmartre)

Well, here I am in this joyful section and I have the honor to tell you our story !!! Foreword: My pregnancy proceeded calmly and bl ...

Third genera dashylechki

Everyone, hello ... while I decided to write connected! This pregnancy was a surprise for us ... and morally I was not ready for it ... and I was somehow not ready for childbirth ...

Childbirth without fear and pain / second birth Leo /

Hello! While my baby sleeps, I'll write a story about my second birth! The PDR was set for me on December 15th. The husband was sure that the baby would be born 16! At 39 weeks, I came to another appointment with my doctor ...

The appearance of our 4th happiness Steshenka! (Elvira)

Hello everyone, so I got to this beautiful section and am ready to share our story! Since I gave birth to all three babies before that on terms 39 and 3; 39 and 4 weeks, then the fourth birth ...

My second and unforgettable birth. smiglyanka

I have to write it before I forget, although this is not forgotten! I was expecting childbirth since August 1. I was afraid to give birth on 9, because. our oldest has a birthday. She did not give birth to the child. It was already hard to walk, but now ...

My second planned COP in the USA (elisevka)

I also matured to write my story about childbirth. My first pregnancy ended with ECS at exactly 39 weeks. The son was big 3939 grams and in the process of labor and labor ...

Childbirth "not according to the book", or how I scared Isis (Nata Lia)

Almost 5 months have passed. and only now can I return to those events ... Already at 30 weeks. my husband and I made an agreement in Isis that we will give birth to them. Bannikov is an excellent marketer, he outlined the cost of childbirth for us both in the hospital and in Isis. And by the way...

The birth of sladusik Oksik11

Yesterday, our Sladusik-Nikitusik was half a year old, but it was as if he was born only yesterday .... Having crossed the threshold of the Nadia clinic, I knew for sure that I would leave pregnant and the female intuition did not disappoint. Pregnancy after IVF proceeded very carefree and magic ...

And it happens! (KSUHA)

Finally! Our sweet baby was born. So, it's already 41 weeks, and the birth still did not even think to begin. I know that up to 42 weeks is considered a normal phenomenon, and with a normally developing we take ...

21olya12 my story about childbirth

So, I'll start .... Since I was walking around, I was admitted to the hospital at 41 weeks. I went to bed with peace of mind, because I was sure that I would quickly give birth, but how wrong I was ... Days passed, but no progress, no fights, no p ...

How we got to the hospital (slivka-84)

Didn't you wait ?! here I am with my story! the third time I try to write and still nothing. So ... ... let's start with a lot of letters. It was 36 weeks of pregnancy, and I was still working. The decree began on May 1, I was tormented by what to do in e ...

Childbirth at 41 weeks (zakr)

I'll write quickly) I got to 41 weeks. It was already hard, swelling, heartburn, in general - all the "delights" ...

History of the third genera (Oriela)

I'll try and write a story. I'll start with the background. I had a hard time giving birth to my first son. At 42 weeks, the contractions were going well, and at full disclosure, labor activity stopped altogether.

Having started planning the second baby, I really wanted to remember how everything was the first time (Anette_mvd)

Having started planning the second baby, I really wanted to remember how it was for the first time (although this is never forgotten!) ... So it was almost 13 years ago)) We take pathologies during ...

The story of my birth after 3 years. (lirka)

I keep a diary about Varya for Varya. And now, after 3 years, it seemed to me that the history of childbirth would also be interesting for her to read at a conscious age. I wrote it and I'm surprised: it's so good ...

Childbirth in the 3rd maternity hospital in Moscow

I'll tell you now. At 36 weeks, I signed a contract at the 3rd maternity hospital (here I gave birth and our dad was born). The choice was between the leading centers of Moscow (C ...

Rapid labor 40-45 minutes (Mariam)

I thought to write in more detail, but I see that inspiration does not come. I will describe it briefly. On the 7th the ring was removed. I was preparing all day, worried, was on suitcases. I thought the doctor would take it off and the process would start right away. Date 07 ....

Second birth my story (IaAngel)

Immediately sorry for a lot of letters, but I didn't get it any shorter. For myself (as a keepsake) I wrote it while still in the RD (just in the dream of my sweet boy ...

My Childbirth Story (Tasha)

A little background - my pregnancy is fifth and I can't say that it was easy, there were some moments. One ...

There is very little left before the birth ... Maybe a week, maybe two, or maybe a couple of days !? The Internet is full of horror stories, stories of painful childbirth ... I don’t read these stories about childbirth, except perhaps by chance. Now I have no fear of childbirth! On the contrary, I would like to hear stories about childbirth of those who have gone through, maybe not easily, of course, but tolerant and successful, for whom the story of childbirth is not a terrible memory! Write your good birth stories, I will read and be inspired.

Well, since you don't want scary stories about childbirth, I'll tell you about the first birth, not the second! I woke up in the morning from light contractions, but for some reason doubted that I was giving birth. She lay down, washed and called her husband from work, her mother-in-law did not tell her not to panic. She gave birth for 10 hours, it hurt, but I endured, moaned, lamented, but didn't scream. We did some kind of ukolchik and I slept in the strongest contractions. Many write that it was hard to push, on the contrary, I did not feel any pain at all. Due to poor eyesight, the doctor suggested waiting out 10 contractions, not pushing. What?! This is unrealistic! But when they took me to the maternity ward, I didn’t walk, but ran. The main thing is to breathe, listen to the doctor and the midwife! And wait for a meeting with your treasure. Then your memories of childbirth will be pleasant.

I set myself up for great pain during childbirth, I read a lot of different stories about childbirth. Everything turned out to be much easier, more tolerant and more successful. She gave birth herself, without breaks. I wish everyone such an easy delivery.

Childbirth is a job. Everything is tolerable. She gave birth without any anesthesia. I was still lying on the table, the afterbirth had not yet departed, but I decided that I would return for at least one more baby. And now, after 2 years I will give birth again. There are a couple of months left, and my daughter will have a brother in late October - early November. I would have gone for a third, but I can't persuade my husband yet. The pain after childbirth is forgotten, only the good remains. It is worth it, at least for the sake of sweet hands, legs, cheeks, the first smile, the word mom and many other pleasant things!

I had a planned cesarean at 39 weeks! Everything went well and quickly. 4 hours after the operation, I was already walking. It was bad for an hour after the anesthesia, and so it went away very quickly. From the intensive care unit the next morning they were transferred to the ward, discharged for 7 days! The pregnancy itself was difficult, namely the birth was easy and unnoticeable! And I wish you a successful birth and a healthy baby!

And I have a wonderful childbirth experience! Now I’ll tell my story about childbirth. My first contraction was at 4 in the morning, then it calmed down in the afternoon (I was sure it was training, I went for a manicure, saw the workers who completed the repairs in the bathroom), by the evening it intensified, but the application on the iPhone clearly said they were training. I called the midwife, she said to take two no-shpa pills, if they do not go away, then not training. In general, by 12 at night I realized that it was time to go. By the time we arrived (the maternity hospital was an hour away), it was already 5 cm ️ I am very glad that I spent the time at home to the maximum, there is no need to rush to the hospital, it’s calmer at home ... As a result, I went into the delivery room at 2 a.m., put epidural, took a nap with her husband and at 7:50 a.m. my daughter was born ... Yes, the main thing is not to resist contractions, not to "cringe", to imagine how everything is revealed there. After all, everyone knows that the power of thought is the most powerful!

I am a mother of two girls. They gave birth with my husband, well, he came out at the most crucial moment. And so everything was not scary and not as painful as I was told! The main thing is the attitude! After giving birth, I was ready to go home in an hour. I have a very happy story about childbirth.

I gave birth painfully, there was no opening and the doctors pulled as best they could, but it hurts, it is incomparable with anything, but this is all forgotten instantly as soon as the baby is put on the tummy. Mom had the same situation, we have it genetically. There is no need to be afraid, and it is pointless. You will be fine, you are a fighter.

I also like the video "French soft childbirth", this time I will try to do everything as that amazing girl did, without screaming, without fuss, controlling every minute of the process, just not in 18 hours, but I will try to keep within 5 hours. True, I’m unlikely to sing.

I gave birth to my second daughter easily. The husband was asleep, leaning his elbows on the windowsill and asked the measure to push, they say, come on faster, I want to eat. And I walked around and twiddled my pelvis so that the child passed easier and corresponded with my friends and sent everyone a photo from the birth. I wish you an easy delivery and pleasant memories of childbirth!

And there is nothing to be afraid of. My childbirth was long. But I have not experienced anything terrible. My husband was with me. We talked all the time, joked and time passed quickly. By the end, there were some minor problems with lowering the child's head, but in the end everything is fine. The main thing is to listen to the doctor, midwife and not be afraid of anything. There is such a term - pain-like sensation. So this is it. No sharp pain. When I recently had otitis media, I realized that it is better to give birth again. Despite the fact that I have a narrow pelvis and rhythmic gymnastics in the past (to the opinion that it is harder for athletes to give birth). Everything will be fine. Good luck to you.

I also read horrible stories about childbirth (I have a planned cesarean), everything turned out to be fine. If this is generally applicable to this situation, for a long time, they really did not get into the back for epidural anesthesia, but my fault, I talked a lot and distracted the doctor with jokes (it was very scary), in 35 minutes they cut, took out, sewn up. I didn't feel anything at all, the milk came on the 3rd day. The mistake was that I did not immediately put the bandage on my stomach, everything would heal even faster. In general, when you think about Lyalka and that you will soon see her, you forget about the pain. Easy labor for you!

And I have a history of cesarean section. Everything quickly and without pain. Nobody suffers. Neither mom nor child. There was not a trace of this seam after giving birth. Good luck!

Childbirth is the most pleasant thing ... What fear? This is such happiness ... Thinking in childbirth is not about yourself, but about the baby. Because it hurts him the most and hard for him. And mothers need to do everything to alleviate this condition. Not yelling or hysteria in the first place. After all, we have been preparing for this for 9 months. The pain is not the one that cannot be endured ... It is quite tolerable. I gave birth in 4 hours. And this day is the most emotional bright in my life. Then gray dull weekdays ... And this day will never be forgotten. So no fears and whining. Good luck and easy delivery!

Childbirth is a holiday. When the baby is on your tummy in the first seconds of life, you will already forget about everything. Only euphoria and pleasure. Good luck to you!

The first story of my childbirth is a cesarean section, no matter how you call it childbirth, after that you just treat the wound, the child, however, did not survive. And she gave birth to the second herself, she wanted to feel the contractions herself and understand childbirth, as they say. Oh, it was not really painful, but she herself was without breaks without anything, I thought the next one would take 5 years, but no - I got pregnant and a year later the second birth went its own way. It was very easy, only 3 hours of tolerable contractions, and everything gave birth without breaks and without anything.

It is important to prepare in advance for childbirth and take everything into account! If you will have a cesarean section, it is important that there is a good doctor, discuss in advance which cesarean is planned, ask for a cosmetic stitch! And yet, it is important that the hospital has children's intensive care. In the case of a cesarean section, there is a sharp change in pressure for the baby, there are minor hemorrhages in the brain, which leads to cerebral edema. It's all fixable, but the nerves will be oh-oh-oh! After a natural birth or cesarean, be sure to wear a bandage! Better - high panties with fasteners! It will help you not to walk in the position of the letter "Sic" and to collect the abdominal muscles!

She gave birth for the first time and lay down all the time during labor, gave birth, everything is fine. And before the second birth, I read that if possible it is better not to lie down, but to walk. So, all 4 hours I walked, during a strong fight I held onto the bed or the wall. It was much easier and faster, maybe it will help you. You will be fine, I'm sure.

Try to relax for each contraction, then you will give birth faster. I used exactly this advice and gave birth in 6 hours tolerably.

Are you planning to give birth with an epidural or yourself? I've taken an injection and didn't regret it for a second. The birth was quick and painless! As soon as you see the baby, you immediately forget about everything! The birth was the first! A little stomach pulls after childbirth, but I expected it to be worse! About a week after it was, of course, not sweet, the sensations below were not pleasant, I wore a bandage, my stomach quickly tightened up in a week! I am breastfeeding. Are you planning on breastfeeding?

I had a great birth, I was not afraid of anything and did not listen to mothers in a panic. 3 hours 40 minutes, the first birth and the baby is great with pleasure and fearlessness would go through it several more times. Good luck!

Want a story about childbirth? I'll tell you now! Throughout pregnancy, labor and childbirth, a slight sadness only with the memories of labor pains, a tiring process, but even with her husband he is not able to darken the happiness that awaits you! The delivery itself after contractions is not painful at all. And for relaxation during contractions, I recommend a shower, I was in the delivery room, the midwife sent me to it, when I reached the first stage, "that's it, I can't take it anymore." In my heart, my husband poured water on me for about 40 minutes. Then we returned to the hall. It just gives you a little break :) And so, if there is a wall bars and fitball in the hall, it will be wonderful, because you want to change poses all the time. I had already pumped up my hands. My husband also turned on music, for some reason DDT went especially well. You don't need a cesarean, you have good athletic training, your body can handle it on its own. I also had good fitness and the right attitude. The main thing is not to start yelling yourself that you can no longer and let them do the caesarean - it's stupid if there is no doctor's evidence. I wish you an easy delivery!

Childbirth is great. It was easier for me to give birth than to walk for 9 months - then toxicosis for 4 months, then heartburn, then edema. Naturally, it hurts, but this pain is forgotten very quickly. 10 hours of labor and happiness was born.

I had a great birth, both the first and the second! First birth 3.5 hours. The second - generally 40 minutes from the start of the contractions. I do not regret it both times without anesthesia, everything is tolerable. Many girls with their husbands give birth, but I would definitely not want to see any husband next to me at these moments. Everything will be fine, don't worry!

My childbirth was planned, the doctor decided so. Age and excess weight are very important for a firstborn. At five in the morning they woke up, did an enema, washed, broke a bubble and then you wait. Contractions grew (pain as with menstruation), droppers were put, then I wanted to go to the toilet ️️️ by a large amount (these are attempts). I went to the door, shoe covers on my feet and they say push. And the abdominal muscles are weak, I pushed a bit in the wrong direction (they say, you have to close your eyes when you push) with the first head appeared, with the second breath it flew out of me, the midwife says, “Why are you so fast. At 10-20 my sun was born (the doctor immediately said that it was a copy of my father, I was dark-skinned with dark hair, my father was fair-skinned with blue eyes). They put it on my chest and then, of course, 10 stitches with minimal anesthesia (they are more painful than giving birth). The main thing is that the mood of the mother in this matter does not worry, soon you will meet with your baby and this is the main thing! Easy delivery to you!

But I didn't even feel pain during childbirth. Apparently from the fact that I was very impressionable and was preparing for childbirth, thinking that this is my destiny, which nature has endowed me with, and if you listen to yourself, then my innate instincts will tell me how to behave. Or maybe from the presence of my husband and from the fact that I felt confident in myself, it all came together and I received a very large surge of hormones and it was almost like an orgasm while the child was walking along the birth canal. I was immediately ready to give birth to a second! Now at 35th week, two years later.

Dear Anastasia! You are doing the right thing, drive away all fears, do not read scary stories about childbirth! You have been diligently preparing for this event for 9 months, so everything will definitely be great, otherwise it cannot be! The birth of a baby is such a miracle and such happiness that all the difficulties associated with childbirth are very quickly forgotten. The first months after giving birth, especially with the first baby, are very difficult for the mother, you are afraid of everything, you worry about the baby, but all difficulties are surmountable! You are a very strong woman, you will succeed!

Nature intended that the brain before childbirth removes all possible fears about childbirth!

My story about childbirth is this: the waters left at night, a week earlier than the PDR. At 5 in the morning I arrived at the maternity hospital, at 9 they took me for a cesarean section (there were no contractions and disclosure), did general anesthesia and voila - I woke up, came to, and brought my bunny to get acquainted. Disadvantages of general anesthesia - the baby was brought only on the third day. Pros - no negative emotions and as good as new on the ground floor.

Oh, great stories about childbirth you have! My both times went well, waiting for happiness! Trembling inside from the fact that very soon I will meet my sons. Before writing my birth stories, I wish you an easy, fast and sunny bright birth! Well, that means I gave birth for a fee both times, my husband was with us (in the sense with me and our baby) and for the first time the contractions began at 8 am, light barely perceptible, passed until 6 o'clock, smiling and jumping with happiness, at that time as other girls screamed, groaned and gasped as they passed by, at 6 they were lowered into the rodblock. My husband came, they prepared me, we laughed and joked, and then at about 19:30 I realized that everything - that a miracle will soon appear! Well, at 19:50 our first-born was born - Timur! My husband went out for these 20 minutes, I was a little scared, but everything was super! The second time I did not feel contractions throughout the day, but everything went to our meeting with my son. As a result, we went to the block at 22:00, while all the procedures were done, the contractions intensified, it was more painful than the first time, but it was also tolerable, my husband and I decided to do anesthesia and before it had time to act, I started giving birth! At 00:15 our Ruslan was born! Thus, both times gave birth very quickly and painlessly! The husband was present all the time! In general, what I want to say: tune in only to the positive!

I look out the window and think that for me, for me and Daughter, everything is behind us ... WE were born!

I gave birth to Polina on 08/09/2005. at 18-00, 7/8 Apgar. The birth was not easy, I will say more: it was long and painful, but I think there is an explanation for this, with which I would like to start in more detail.

The pregnancy was not easy, from the 17th week the uterus was in good shape and I was admitted to the hospital, where I stayed for a month. I had to try IV / IM magnesia, but hey. After the end of the "preserving" therapy, which, I must admit, did not give much, tk. a month later I "go to bed" again, but already in the department of pathology in the 1st city hospital for "preservation". In the maternity hospital (pathology), magnesia is again poured into me, which absolutely does not help, and I am transferred to GINIPRAL (a rather serious medicine that has negative consequences, such as: rapid heartbeat, pain in the heart, tremors of the hands (tremors), slowing down of the intestine (while that pregnant women and without Ginepral have great problems in order to go to the toilet) and add UTROZHESTAN (the highest dose of 600 mg per day) and all this with my weight of 53 kg (in the 7th month of pregnancy I gained only 4 kg) The doctor himself said that my "dose" was a horse.

So they "floated" me with medicines for another 1.5 - 1.7 months.

They let me go home for a month, because The maternity hospital was closed for "washing", and I stubbornly did not want to move with the others to another maternity hospital (after all, you can drink pills at home).

I stopped drinking Ginepral only 2 weeks before giving birth (!!! and the medicine is serious, it binds well !!!)

So we come with my husband to our (my) Doctor two weeks before the birth, to check and clarify the date, so that we can go to the hospital directly for childbirth (I absolutely didn’t want labor to start at home). The doctor canceled, as I said above, drinking ginipral (called me a lover of pills), said to start drinking olive oil and essential forte in the morning and evening (3 rubles per day), and also to resume sex life, but without excesses, why my husband and I we were wildly happy about this "no frills" ... it was on the second of August J, on the same evening the "traffic jam" began to recede. The next day, after returning from the birthday of my Mom, in the evening I started having contractions that were irregular, but quite tangible, 1 in 10 minutes ... It was scary, because I still wanted to reach the hospital, I had to go to bed on 08.08., and today only 03.08. "Enough" is tolerant, but with each contraction the thought was ripening in my head that if THIS does not go away by itself, and this is quite possible, then I call the doctor and we go to the hospital ...

But by morning everything stopped and I calmed down. The cork was slowly but surely leaving my womb. J was classically stretching my lower abdomen, back ... But until 08.08. we still made it.

Of course, I didn't want to go to the hospital, just the thought that I would part with my husband again, I would wait for his arrival and lie stupidly for days on the hospital bed ... I was overtaken by wild melancholy and one faint hope that THIS (childbirth) would happen in the very near future time - fiddled with the soul of J

In the evening, Lyubimy arrived and we walked with him as usual, went to a cafe, as always ordered green tea and dark chocolate ... We spent the evening wonderfully J

In the evening of the same day, I felt "uncomfortable", my stomach ached and I complained about the olive oil I had drunk, which I bought the same evening (new, not previously tested). I fell asleep…

08/09/2005 And at 03-00 it started ... I started having contractions every 5 minutes and quite tangible, which was quite possible to endure. Of course, I tried to breathe correctly, which helped. I endured until 06-00 and called my Doctor, to which I heard the answer: "Why didn't you call before ?!" He sent me to the midwife to "report the situation." I was summoned "for a check" by the doctor on duty, who said: "I don't see any particularly developing labor activity here, let's inject you now (wildly sorry, I forgot the name of the drug) and try to fall asleep. And after 3 hours the injection will show itself to be false contractions or no, that is, it can intensify the process or, on the contrary, suspend it, and try to fall asleep.

It would not hurt me to fall asleep, of course, to pant from three in the morning, while experiencing far from unpleasant sensations - exhausting, but nevertheless - I fell asleep, to my great joy, before 8-00.

Waking up and trying to start the normal course of the day through the contractions, I found bloody mucus on my underwear, at first there was very little of it, drop by drop, over time (and the intensification of contractions), the blood mucus increased and I had to put on a pad L as I hate them L

At about 9 am MY Doctor looked at me and sent me to rest, saying that I might give birth today. It turned out badly to rest, but I did everything in order to facilitate my contractions (I tried to breathe correctly (at this "speed" of the contraction it is quite possible), lay on my left side, which really makes it easier ... try to lie on your back J will twist a bagel) ... By the way, I, suffering from constipation, went to the toilet 4 times (of course between contractions, and this is in 5 minutes) in a big way. The small toilet also gave a little relief.

So I lay there until about 12 noon ... I didn't want to lie down and simply could not. I paced the long corridors of pathology. I called Beloved and Dear Husband, said that the process is GONE. He offered to come, but I said that it was not necessary (although later I regretted it very much !!!).

At 12 in the afternoon, the Doctor looked at me in the chair and pierced the fetal bladder. I am lying on an armchair with my legs extended, the Doctor pulls out a tool that looks like a crochet hook, only a lot more:
- what is it, - I ask, rounding my eyes
- now break through the fetal bladder and go to give birth. After that, he will grab a little stronger - the doctor calmly answered.

"Well, it must be so," I thought. I must say that there was absolutely no fear of childbirth in me, well, there was no such fear of him. I was not afraid of pain. I lived "here and now", did not think about how it would be in a minute ... you can say that I did not think about anything, only as about the present moment. I was told to pack my things and I was "dancing" from the contractions - I collected it and quietly, so to myself, I was glad that IT happened the way I wanted it, as soon as I went to the hospital. Well, I really did not want to wallow around uselessly in the hospital. 08.08 - fell, 09.08 - gave birth. HOW she gave birth, read below ...

They let me down with my things to the emergency room for "treatment", although it was useless, I was clean, shaved and generally went to the toilet without their enema 4 times, between contractions, so I refused the enema. They changed me into ... to say that it was a SCARY nightie, this is nothing to say, and gave me the same robe (although, to be honest, I don't care about THIS, just THIS could not help but draw attention to myselfJ. They took me to the delivery room. , and it is good stronger ... In the family I was awaited by a "set of bedclothes" and a "pad" J such a rag that must be inserted between my legs ... this is something! Although bloody mucus leaked from me, I did not want to insert this rubbish between my legs "walked" through the clan without her. ”The girl came in and said:
- What are you, here is a lining, hold it between your legs. You will flood the whole floor!
- what do I care about these floors when I feel so bad !!! - I thought.

As soon as the girl left, the lining flew onto the couch. Red liquid flowed down my legs, I was green from contractions, which were quite strong.

I tried to lie down, but it turned out badly and I wound circles around the birth, around the maternity chair. I was in pain ... I was looking for a doctor in the corridor so that he could anesthetize all this disgrace ... I was green, my face was haggard with suffering and I couldn't find a place for myself ... I want to fly to the ceiling during the fight ... I groan and this is my normal state. I remember that I was given some kind of injection, which was GOOD for a minute, it even seemed to me that I took a nap, but I think it really didn't take even two minutes ...

FINALLY MY doctor came, I associated him with SALVATION !!! Looked at the disclosure, said that the case is moving. But by his expression, I realized that the matter was moving extremely slowly, and the contractions were such that it was already extremely difficult to endure, I start with a groan to switch to shouting ... TIME GOES ...

I must say that I was skeptical of those who SCREAM during childbirth and told myself that the pain is tolerable and can be tolerated by interlocking teeth. As I already said, I have a rather reserved attitude to pain, I am not afraid of pain and I am quite resilient. BUT NOW I UNDERSTOOD THAT EVERYTHING COULD BE OTHERWISE ...

PAIN OF CHILDBIRTH - (minimum of mine), it's just a word ... "pain" is a slight and distant echo of what I had to endure. No, this is not PAIN !!! Pain is something that CAN BE ENDURED ... I also had to experience something that IT WAS IMPOSSIBLE TO ENDURE !!! This is the torment of hell ...

... the screaming turned into a scream ... I screamed without stopping, without closing my mouth for 5-6 hours. And this is not because I am intemperate, capricious or whatever - THIS WAS MY NATURAL STATE (which could not be controlled ... pure instinct) at that time. My Doctor came running to me and said: "Zhanna, why are you shouting like that? Well, you are wasting your energy on screaming ... well, you can't do that ..." - I couldn't do otherwise ... I just couldn't. “I can't… I can't… I can't…” was all I could say. I asked for pain relief. The doctor denied: "We injected you with the strongest drug" (this is probably the one from which I managed to take a half-nap for a couple of minutes ... wow - the strongest drug, and this despite the fact that I hadn't eaten anything since morning ... so, purely symbolic: kefir, after a while a couple of peaches did not fit.)

My Doctor tried to ease my torment: I got up, leaned my hands on the bed, He stood behind and with his strong hands, grabbing my lower back, began to massage it. ABOUT! It was SOMETHING !!! For this moment I was ready to do anything, SO IT WAS GOOD !!! And then He left ... and my Grief was frank.

As time went on ... I taxied on the generic without closing my mouth. The walls shook with a heart-rending scream, they came to look at me condemningly, but they left with a sympathetic look ... they could not stand it for a long time ... I could hardly move my legs, I wanted to lie down, and ideally - sleep, long and sweet sleep. When the contraction let go, I fell on the bed "without hind legs" and puffed and groaned ... when I had enough again, I flew up to the ceiling and again wandered along the maternity hospital on swaying legs. It was a nightmare ... covered in blood, my eyes were veiled, no thoughts - only instincts ... when my Doctor came in, I painfully asked him: "Well, when ... well, when ...". I asked for an epidural, asked for a cesarean (I generally had to do it ... the ophthalmologist wrote: it is desirable to exclude the second stage of labor. But this "desirable" did not inspire my doctor ... and thank God !!! Later I will tell you why.) But further 6-7 cm of disclosure it didn’t go well, but with such torment ... I was left to die further ... I, like GOD, waited for me to grieve ... and it began a little bit ... and rarely ...

"In the arena, all the same" - the picture did not change ... the torment was hellish ... No, here, the concept of "pain" did not lie close, I tell you ... it was something, THIS is not an explanation, THIS is beyond words and of course , what I had to go through - no one except me will understand (and God forbid !!!) ...

I began to grieve harder and I understood it well. They examined me again (pulled the doctor out of the room, saying that I want to poop and I want it well).

The midwife came in, the doctor asked to prepare a table (maternity). I WAS HAPPY FROM THE UNDERSTANDING THAT IT WAS NEAR THE END ... But the contractions continued ... a dropper catheter was put into me and the contractions began to be stimulated, apparently the opening was still incomplete. And if earlier it was possible to stagger around the generic thereby alleviate (ha-ha ... ease L) your suffering, now. I was chained ... My throat was screaming all the time, without ceasing ... at full power (I don't know how I didn't get hoarse and how the midwife and the Doctor didn't go deaf).

I was grieving, I was asked not to push ... I tried .... It turned out badly ... it worked out by itself ... My Doctor and the Midwife realized that the tedious process was in full swing. Enov (the name of My Doctor) stuck his hand into the crotch in order to grope for his head and still groped ... she moved on ... And I was overjoyed that soon, that very, very soon I would hear ... I WILL SEE MY BABY AND SHE WILL BE WITH ME. And I wanted it to end as soon as possible ...

The head went wrong, with his forehead and Enov told the midwife to do an episiotomy and "this ... deeper" - as He put it.

They started pushing ... One moment was like this: I didn’t bother, let's say my head, if I understood correctly then, remained between my legs, and I lay and think: is it possible that half of my head is sticking out like that, nothing is stretching itself (but me and cut it, when it was cut, it was absolutely painless, that's when it was sewn up, yes, although novocaine was probably locally made, but that novocaine ... I'll tell you ... "sho the dead man," in short, at the moment when they sewed me up, I moan that I can hardly endure ... to which they answered me laughing: “You better look at what Miracle lies on your chest.” And IT was really UNFORGETTABLE !!! JJJ ...

She gave birth somewhere from the third - fourth attempts. I must admit: pushing is the sweetest and most pleasant moment of my birth. But the moment when Little jumped out (first the head and almost immediately the body J) and I saw Her - nothing is incomparable, indescribable…. SUCH HAPPINESS ... EVERYTHING IS IN THE RAINBOW ... EVERYTHING IS IN BOUNDLESS LUMINOUS LOVE ...

While they were sewing me, she lay like a little frog on my chest and quietly snored so-so, and I looked at her, gently hugged her and felt boundless happiness.

18-00. Polinochka was born at 18-00. 10 minutes later, I asked the absolutely tortured doctor to give me a cell phone, I was already smiling ... I called my Most Beloved and Dear Man and said that WE were already born ... I made Him happy that the Little spilled copy of Daddy, i.e. His J and something else we said, We were happy ...

After that, with a duck under us (to drain blood) and an ice "heating pad" on us, with a catheter still stuck in our hand and a Baby on the same hand, we lay for 2 hours, and after that, we were taken to our two-bed ward, where we stayed for 3 days, and for 4 we were discharged.

On the day of discharge, my stitches were removed (it hurt, I couldn’t stand it anymore and burst into tears ... this is for everything that had accumulated, so to speak - at last J). We were taken with other Mommies for fluorography, and after that, I packed my things ... on the first floor We were met by Beloved Husband and already Loving Daddy, the rest of our relatives (whom we left there) and went home.

Daddy J was beaming all over looking at Dotsyu and is now beaming ...

· Labor lasted a total of 17 hours. It seems to me that this was the effect of conservation therapy (ginipral, morning)

· Episiotomy - an incision in the perineum ... little pleasant. It also hurts, bleeds, because of this you are afraid to go to the toilet in a big way (but nothing, on the second day J went (when there are problems, already at home, I do myself a small enema. The seam is already healing and does not hurt so much.)

· Fuckers - postpartum vaginal discharge is an unpleasant and inevitable thing (you have to wear pads, which I don't like so much), but you don't really pay attention to this either.

· Breast - on the third day it was full and began to hurt, I am already silent about the nipples, which from habit and such "friction" could seriously suffer if it were not for PureLan 100 ointment and silicone breast pads for feeding! It JUST MUST be purchased !!!

· You also need to learn to straighten, I guessed to learn. For no breast pump will help in this difficult matter. Although you can get a breast pump (I don't want to). I apply the baby one by one to each breast and pump with my hands when necessary, but in general the Baby copes well with sucking milk, so a breast pump is not needed.

· During pregnancy I gained 6-7kg, weighed 56kg with my pre-pregnant weight 48-49kg. When I came home and got on the scales, there was no limit to my surprise ... everything went "no" - relatives 48kg.

· Being pregnant I have not changed in any way outwardly, contrary to prejudices (if you "carry" a girl, then she will take away the beauty of her mother). I don't believe in prejudices!

The main thing is Little ... caring for her, breastfeeding. It's all SUCH GREAT PLEASURE !!!