You did not think: why do someone give up unusual gifts, and someone does not get anything? Or at the beginning of the relationship, the guy did pleasant surprises, and then stopped. How to get and ask for gifts for men?

Do not be afraid to ask

The Internet is now presented a huge number of schemes that tell how to ask for gifts in men. These are usually some hints, provocations, all sorts of psychological tricks, hiding male ego, resentment, ignore and even ultimatum.

Someone "by chance" is mistaken by a dialogue, allegedly writes a girlfriend about what he wants to receive as a gift, but sends it a man. Someone makes strange hints in the form of a photo or intricate phrases.

Do not be afraid to ask directly and open and take gifts. When you take gifts from the other, there is an exchange of energies between people. The donor pumps your energy channel "adoption", and you are his channel "Darment".

Prepare Sani in the summer

How to ask for gifts for men? The most important thing is to choose the right man. It is necessary to pay attention to a generous person who is ready and wants to give gifts with her beloved just like that. You can learn about his attitude to this issue on the first dates.

If you want to get some material benefits from the guy, then initially you need to present yourself as a girl who is used to getting them. Yes, there are absolutely other beauties with a different worldview, which do not need anything, they themselves will cope. But that is another story…

You can simply gently say a man that Dad, grandfather, uncle or brother often indulge your female half of the family. They express their love in the form of gifts and original surprises. Just recently, Dad gave your mom on her birthday a beautiful bouquet of scarlet roses and a mink coat. And brother for the new year you gave you an iPhone H. And most importantly, what you answer them like in response. And it is absolutely normal.

All this needs to be told very delicately, without imposing. Why do you need to do it? If a man is a greedy jar, then after the first meeting he will merge and understand that you will not pull you. This is definitely not your option. It is better now to say goodbye to him than then you will understand that a person does not fit your expectations. Leave such individuals to those girls for whom the norm is on the grain of oats per day with a scarf bread.

How to ask for a man money and is it possible? You can, but only once, if it is smart. There are representatives of strong sex that are pathologically greedy. The reasons may be mass: a difficult financial situation, a bench in the head, poor upbringing, other principles of life, hatred for the female floor, he rows everything only for itself and much more.

Begin with yourself

Properly ask for gifts in men is a banal psychology. The state of gratitude creates miracles. And it works not only with men. These are the laws of the universe. Sun shines - thanks, wonderful weather. It is raining - thanks, then mushrooms will go, the cars will be clean and it will be easier to breathe. On the table there is bread - thanks! I see, I go and say - thanks!

And if a woman only requires and bends the bar, then it is very felt. And a man understands that she needs only resources. Another Pushkin in a fairy tale about the Golden Fish well revealed a similar topic. Give the princesses that are already grateful to the default for the fact that there is a high-quality man with her (not to be confused with the "abubs of what a man").

Change! The bloodthirsty look of the naughty on a cute view of the princess, which is infinitely grateful for everything.

It is you should have a high spiritual rating. Do not envy, do not say that Mashka gives more, do not condemn people, do not consider other people's goods. Just be grateful to everything that happens and love yourself. Because it is at such moments that other hormones are produced from which the energy industry is improved. It is these people who want to give everything.

Increase dose

How to ask and get expensive gifts from men? Guys need to teach it. This word is a bit rough in relation to man, but it expresses the main thought. If a man lived alone for a long time or with a former, whom nothing was needed from him, then he needs to gradually teach him to start making you gifts.

How to do it? When a man begins to make any courtship towards the girl, even if it is a common chocolate, rose (without cellophane, I hope), rolls, scarf or something else, always for it you need to thank it. Even if he just brought you to the house or delivered somewhere in the right place.

How to thank and ask gifts for men List of phrases:

• Cute, so great! I am so pleased that you gave me ... (indicate that).
• Thank you for keeping yourself. So nice to get these little presents from you!
• Thank you for bringing me to work (or to another place). You're just my Savior! I would be late (I did not have time).
• Every time you make me happy with small gifts, my mood is improved. I look at him and constantly remember you.
• So great that you are such a careful man! Keep up the good work. * Kisses in a cheek *
• I'm so glad that you were not mistaken! You are the same man who makes his woman nice. It is right. I appreciate it in you.

Phrases can be combined with each other or come up with something. After such thanks, the man in the head will produce a special pattern of behavior: I gave something to the girl -\u003e immediately got a pleasant reverse response. And then he will click on his head, and he wants to give more or even more.

The guy should have an inner state of what he wants to give something to his second half. But, remember that there are thick-fledged individuals who have enough for once (and not only in this matter). Watch it for a week, two or a month. Will he want to please you again? If he does not show itself and does not give anything anymore, then do not take himself illusions. This is not your option.

Technologies

How to learn to ask for gifts in men, and dear and high-quality? There is nothing easier. We offer you two technologies that will greatly facilitate your communication.

Screwing

You can ask for gifts in men using a simple reception. The first technique is screwing down a man as a gift. It is necessary to smell it with something and show that both people will benefit from this purchase.

Father-daughter

Wrong: "Cute, I passed today near the store window and saw a supercrase dress. Buy, buy, buy. "

Maybe in this option it will buy something, but not more than a plush bunny or bike, as the father gives his daughter.

Aggressive position

Wrong: "Cute, I want a dress. Buy me a dress, please. I am his very go, you should buy it. You are a man. "

Wrong: "Dear, but Mashka Vovka bought her dress. She just asked, and he bought. And you can't you? "

Wrong: "Dear, but Kiryukha Oksankin did not bought her a dress. But you are not like that, yes? You buy me this dress ????. "

Wrong: "Favorite, buy me a dress, but there is nothing to wear !!! What will you allow me to talk badly to me at work, what do I go to Cookukhuk? "

In these options, the girl puts himself above the guy and tries to put pressure on him and destroy his authority. It is unlikely that such a ride.

Partners

Option: "Dear, I saw a dress for 10,000 rubles today. Here I have 5,000 rubles, can you add another 5,000 rubles? "

Here both people are equal. He can add money to the dress, but this will accompany you all his life and not only with the dress. Do you need this? After all, each of us has its own principles in relationships. For someone, this is the norm, for some that is not. This is the case of everyone.

The best decision

How to make a man himself want to give gifts?

Right: "Dear, buy me, please, this dress. I want to dress up in it and dance for you. I want you to remove it with me with a further continuation ... "

How to ask for a man's money? Similar!

Right: "Favorite, I need 10,000 for your needs. And I will buy my beautiful Belish and I will please you. "

If you want an iPhone, promise him that you will delight his intimate photos while he sits on a boring meeting. If a graphic tablet, then tell me that your man inspires you, and you draw his portrait. If utensils - then he will receive a delicious dinner, if cosmetics, then he can admire your beauty, even if you are simple wallpaper, then tell him that he will live in a comfortable nest.

The reception of a little girl, which presses on pity and asks to buy something, works only on 1 man out of 20.

Queen drama

If a man is in love with his girlfriend and is experiencing some feelings, then a strong emotional connection is created between them. When a woman is good, then a man too. Here you can play a little.

First you need to show him that you are a bit sad. If he is not a very smaller tender, then he will definitely fit and asks what happened. It is at this moment such a dialogue should happen at this moment.

It is necessary to ask for gifts for men:

- Dear, what happened? Why are you so upset?

- Yes, nothing, everything is OK ... (It is important not to replay and not too dramatize).

- What happened? Well, tell me.

- Yes, here ... I saw a stunning dress in the store. I looked, it costs 20,000 thousand (it doesn't matter what you yourself think this is a mad amount for dresses, continue). I still can't afford it for himself, I do not have so many savings. But I would really like to buy it to the celebration ... I even remembered him. It sits on me perfect. From the fact that I can't buy it, so I and sad. I will save money ...

Then everything depends on how much a high-quality man you chose. Good guy thinks: "Oh, my sweetheart sadness is wrong. She is bad, sad and sad. It is necessary to make it smiles ". Usually, at this point, it gives the required amount or lists it to the card. And if not, then you know what to do!

— Very often we turn on a little girl and say: - You must! This is also the path to nowhere, pressure and manipulation. Maybe leads to the result, but more often to negative.

I hope that all of the above did not become a discovery for you, and you have learned in these situations yourself.

The ability to ask directly related to the awareness of our femininity.

The main need of a man is to be the right woman, as well as be the first and to be a hero. I have mentioned more than once J. Gray: "Feel what you don't need is a slow death for a man."

It is clear that if a woman does everything herself, then a man with such a woman will not satisfy his needs, and his masculinity will not reveal.

It is our weakness and insecurity that make a man to show their strength, activity and its leadership qualities. One woman wrote to me in the comments that I disagree that all men were leaders in nature. And I believe that in the potential all. And it is the woman who can reveal this potential.

And now, ATTENTION, It is the requests that make us to become weak, but a strong man. You know, this is such a game to play a hide and seek someone should drive, no one wants, but in the end you have to agree, but the game will not take place. So, if we do not agree to be weak voluntarily, then the games will not. So the life is arranged - the source of the river is higher, and the mouth is lower. If the source and mouth will be on the same height, the swamp will turn out. The river will not be able to flow.

I will give an example, one of my familiar husband answered the question, he will finish his relationship on the side or not. He said that "the mistress will not cope without me, and you (wife) cope." Re-read again. Why a man "die" by the faithful death with a strong woman, if you can find the one that may need you.

For many women pregnancy becomes a kind of discovery and knowledge of his female weakness. Women are sincerely surprised that the man copes and is able to feed two first, and then three. It was during this period that many noted that the husband's earnings increase, a man becomes attentive and begins to do a lot. Not all women are happening, but only in those who really consider this period special, touching and unprotected. And those who are able to stop. But, if you and pregnant continue to ride and fight on all fronts, then, unfortunately, it remains to do everything in the maternity hospital. Is it possible to blame for this man?

Therefore, we voluntarily allow yourself to be weak.

And it is very good that requests are a manifestation of weakness, then a man can show power and courage. When you ask, a man feels its significance.

It costs something else to hang on the wall. A man appreciates more than that woman in which the strength is invested, energy, money. And the one that invests into it does not appreciate. Unfortunately, this is a given. Should I argue with it? Better on the wall so as not to forget.

It is important to remember at the request:

— speak openly and confidentialWhat you need and what you need, without hints. You know that a man appreciates the woman most - sincerity. About this in more detail in the following articles.

— do not be afraid to fall dependent on a man, it's just the most. Do not do anything yourself, no, even mild male work, ask. Open the bank, install the program to the computer. A little practice, and I promise you that you really do not cope without a man.

— ask for a man more than once Let it do not confuse you and does not disappoint. Why they are so arranged, I do not know, but the first time, as a rule, do not hear. It is important to keep calm and ask the same benevolent and mild voice again. Even if you have to ask 10 times. If he did not respond to the first or second time, this does not mean that he does not love you. Learning patience, one more important female quality. Especially for you I placed a very funny video. Mark Gangora. The lecturer will perfectly answer the question why men are so arranged, good mood is provided to you.

— if you ask for something to do, pronounce everything specificallythat when and where. Yes, but it is easier to do everything yourself, you say. But what about weakness? The game called "Happy Relationship" is possible only with the condition.

— do not ask for a sacrificial state, only with dignity. I wrote about dignity

— always express appreciation and, for any little things, even if you immediately did not like it. Do not perceive your requests as proper.

— you should not just ask, but to believe In the fact that your man is best able to cope with your request.

— a man must feel that it needsand not forced, so the requirements are excluded. "You must ...", "You need ..."

— remember, a man needs time, To digest your request, relate your time and resources, learn to wait.

— do not be afraid of failure, Be sure to watch the video.

And of course, in the request, I exclude a different kind of manipulation, ultimatums and whims, they say we would prove to me that you love and buy it to me. Never require evidence of love. I hope that you understand that real relationships exclude such a kind of verification and requests.

Unfortunately, the format of the article does not allow to push the ability to ask, but it creates a vector, and you can start moving yourself in this direction.

And for those who need help and support, then you can enroll in a women's school, where this skill, we work out more carefully. All the details

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How to ask for money from men?

Many women would like to receive money and gifts from their men, but, unfortunately, not all this turns out. How to ask for money in men? So that you not only gave them, but gave you joyfully and would like to give it yet?

Many do not ask their man about help because they are shy, some - because proud, and it is inconvenient to somehow ask. And what is the most interesting, take a friend - conveniently, and ask your beloved (or not very beloved) - uncomfortable, allegedly he didn't think that I was imposing and what I only need money from him. As the Bible says: "ask, and you will be rewarded."

The more you ask, the more you get, but do not ask anything, respectively, do not get anything - no one knows what you have in your head, and your thoughts do not read. Frankly, men are very satisfied with this state of affairs: and money is safe, and sexual needs are satisfied.

How to properly ask for men?

First you need to learn to ask. But we are such independent and self-sufficient! And asking us the pride does not allow us, but, as you know, pride is one of their main 10 sins. Express your request clearly and clear. But not an ordinary tone of the type "Give money!" , and that's it, and gently and gently.

Contact a man with such a request to more often. If you want money and gifts, do not expect a man to be a telepath and read all your thoughts. And you should not wait for what you can not formulate. But you are frown and annoyed because of unfulfilled desires, they are offended and angry: after all, it should give, and does not give! Such a fucking ...

Constantly repeat your man that you need money to look like to become him, feed his delicious and healthy food, nice to smell on joy to himself and him. And emphasize that it is necessary, first of all to him, and not you. The man will soon reach that you have to match him, and there should be a decent woman nearby.

You may be afraid that your chosen one will refuse you. Of course, this may be. But most often a man is inconvenient to refuse a woman, as we are inconvenient to ask for money. Naturally, he should not pick up the whole salary - he must have his own money for pocket expenses. Do not ask you for you money for cigarettes!

A common mistake of women believes that since the man lives with her, he must be obliged to give her money. Unfortunately, in this life no one should anyone. There are different situations. This question is better to resolve to an official marriage if it is granted. As they say, a man marries a woman, thinking that she will never change, and the woman get married, thinking that she finally changed it. It was not here!

When you expressed a request for money - do not justify. You have full right. And you do not need to lower my eyes to the floor, feeling guilty.

Before asking for money, be sure to praise it, you can do it after, but be sure to tell what you have a wonderful, best. And do not forget your man. Sincerely, with feeling. Even better when your eyes shine from delight when receiving a certain amount. And to see the wild delight of your eyes again, a man will have a desire to repeat this situation again.

And let your man know that without his financial support you can't (do not forget to mention and about it). And he will be glad to help you.

Remember, whatever a man, he lives for the sake of a woman. And with the right approach, it can do everything for her.

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Reviews (8) on how to ask for money from men?

If we are not talking about husband, then I think it is better not to take money from a man. As a last resort, if you really need a big amount that you can not collect, ask her to debt, as it should be - with the preparation of receipt, so that there are no complaints in the case. And then definitely return. Does not want to take - let him give the returned debt to the charity foundation, but it is impossible to remain obliged.

And if people are going to live together, then you need to discuss how to discuss the general budget, who pays for that, etc., so that there is no misunderstanding and offense.

Women, unlike men, romantic people awaiting their favorite bouquets, surprises, diamonds. The girl so want her half to utter her cherished phrase: "Dear, I will give you a star!" Despite the fact that in our eth of Emancipation, women are becoming more independent and independent, their nature requires help and care from a strong sex. How to learn to ask for a man gifts and money? This is a whole science. For each case suits its own option.

Most often, girls make three mistakes: they are waiting that men themselves guess their desires; offended if they did not guessed; Begin to express their requirements and complaints. Over time, love and trust in the pair disappears. In this case, you just need to know how to properly ask for gifts in men. Psychology offers many options for developing their motivation to give their loved ones.

Your love is the best incentive

The man overflowed by the feelings is usually tasked with his favorite gifts. It should be filled with love that the woman should. To do this, do special training. Raise and lower your hands, breathe with the thought that weighted from the negative. Feel love in your heart and imagine a number of your loved one. Direct your entire positive energy with your second half. Systematically perform this exercise and inspire your beloved. Inspired man himself rushes in search of a gift, just hint, in which direction to look.

Loving Cavalier will always give his lady what she wants. It will be nice to him, and not in tightness. Try only to correctly evaluate its financial capabilities and social status.

Wait for good spirit

Men think a little different than women. Not everyone can capture some ladies' hints. They are not guided by emotions, they need concrete. Do not be afraid to tell direct about your dream, describe the details of the desired gift, whether it is a dress, shoes, oats or bracelet. Do not tighten your request to the last, because your favorite need time to think about how to get the right trophy. Express real desires, do not exceed the possibility of your young man. Your overestimated requirements can cause a sense of inferiority.

Before expressing your request, make sure that your favorite is a good mood. The tired man is better to feed first, ask about the state of affairs. Prepare it to a conversation with a relaxing massage. Bring your conversation to the state so that Cavalier himself asked: "How can I help you?"

Loose impatience!

If you subtly hinted your beloved about the desired gift, then you do not need to assert it. Let him make a decision and go for the purchase. Do not cheat yourself with various negative. Tell yourself that you will be glad to any gift. So you will remove yourself from pressing expectation. In no case impolve yourself in advance in the state of discontent, which is sometimes expressed by silence. Try to take any gift so as not to repel the desire from the guy to please you again and again.

Rejoice to any gifts

Remember the important recommendation - please those who rejoice! Your inspired state after delivery is very inspired by your loved one. Burn from joy, chlo in your hands, surprise, infinitely repeat the word "Thank you". Express all your emotions and feelings sincerely. A man really needs such approval. Rejoice not to the very gift, but the fact that you do it. You can put a present on the most prominent place in the house, often approach him, admire. Your enthusiastic reaction will definitely encourage the cavalier for further surprises.

Be a subtle psychologist

There is a rare category of men who are pathological chubs, and no matter what social layer is it. However, most often the cavalier does not make a gift simply because he has no money. Such a man is not very confident in himself and in its capabilities.

There is another category of men who are only worth hinting - and they immediately fulfill a desire. It is important to finely catch the psychology of your beloved, intrigue him, say that the woman's style is assessed by her man. After all, any guy is nice if his girl looks good, tastefully dressed. Appreciate any noble kavallar's desires in your direction. Let it first be just a box of candies and a teddy bear. The main thing is to teach your favorite to the procedure of donation.

Tender and calm tone

Sometimes men are not my desire from the first time, as they are busy at work, and the head is uploaded by other problems. This does not mean that claims should be made, offended and scandaling. Become a gentle kitty that calmly purries near his owner. Cats never they just aggressively achieve their own.

Inflatable sponge, as in childhood, you are unlikely to achieve something. After all, hysterical emotions cause only disgust with the opposite sex. Are you not sure if you ask for a man gifts? Of course yes! Just do it in a good mood, looking into his eyes, including all your female fluids.

Make a male compliments

Many ladies are asked about how to ask for men and money from men. To stimulate your cavalier, do not forget to thank him even for minor surprises. Tell him that you are very lucky with him, boast of this before your girlfriends or mom. Let the guy feel the hero. Do not think that only men should sneak compliments, do not skimp on gratitude. Hint your favorite about his success, charisma, reliability, confidence. We will not remember that he is a decisive man, witty, strong spirit. There are many speech revolutions and techniques with which you can inspire your beloved.

Important details

If you do not know how to ask for men erotically, or you had unsuccessful attempts, do not be discouraged. Drop all your experiences. Get acquainted with the competent solution to what to do how to ask for gifts in men correctly:

1. Express your requests easily, without tension. Straighy several times in front of the mirror.
2. Improve confidence in yourself. Girl with leadership qualities I want to give an expensive gift.
3. Try not to just spend his money, but to deliver a lot of emotions about his investment. It is important not to spend money, but to do it beautifully.
4. Show a man that you have taste, then he will trust you. If you are missing something to complete your image, a man will pleasantly fill this space.
5. Hold all his surprises and gifts in memory, at a convenient case, talk about them. It can be a regular ticket to the theater, dried flower, photo from tour.
6. Do not make material gifts for your own money in response. It can spoil a young man, turn into an Alphonse. On birthdays or other memorable dates, make him surprises of an intangible plan. You can have a romantic walk in the park, dance, a song in your version. You can connect your culinary skills to this and prepare a beautiful cake.
7. Ask for your loved one unusual, difficulties are only beaten and stimulate guys. Let it be some kind of trinket made to order.
8. Gradually raise your status. Dear woman worthy of expensive gifts and impressive investments. The status is considered not only the material state, but also your skills, achievements, dating.
9. Create a festive atmosphere more often. Most often, gifts are presented at some occasion or for the holiday.
10. Show femininity and sexuality. This is your main weapon, it can fight the most resistant man.
11. Do not show your favorite my dependence on gifts. Keep calm and confidence. It is necessary to ask calmly, as if nothing terrible would not happen if this gift would not get to you.
12. Specifically formulate your requests. Sometimes girls themselves know what they want and rely on a fantasy guy. You can also hint, where it is sold. Do you think that not romantic? Everything depends on you. Create a mood in a pair - the duty of the girl.

Thin and tactfully educate a man

Do not postpone the promises of a man for tomorrow, realize them when he agreed. Your task is to gently take him by the hand and take off with a smile in the right store.

Sometimes remind a man that its function is to make you satisfied. Tell me that in this way it is self-realized, increases its testosterone level and raises the tone. It is important that you are given to understand your husband that the gifts received are not just trinkets, but your positive emotions. They are then awarded a loved one.

Try to join the values \u200b\u200bof your narrowed, develop spiritual love. Just remember that men thinly feel flattery.

Approximate phrases, how to ask for gifts for a man

Very often women do not know how to ask for gifts in men, and they do not understand what they want from them. To do this, use a very simple formula "I want ...", and then clearly formulate your desire. In this way, you express the result for yourself. Do not skimp on words, pleasant male hearing: "Please, you know best that I give me." Make transparent hints: "What beautiful earrings!", "I always wanted to go there." Do not skit on affectionate words, please contact a man with the words "Favorite", "Dear". A phrases for gratitude there are a lot:

• "I am delighted, about the best gift and did not dreamed, you are my only and best in the world."
• "Dear, how romantic, only you can like me so much."
• "You are me smartly, I always believed in you, just a squall of emotions."

I would like to believe that with the help of these tips you will turn your love story in a real fairy tale.