The world of gambling has been alien to women since ancient times. This world has always been dominated by men throughout its 4,500 years of known history. Sometimes women were even bettors in the game, but women players were very rare.

Nowadays, according to researchers, 51% of the world's population participates in some kind of gambling every year, and online gambling is increasing by an average of 23% per year. Women's participation in online gambling is also growing rapidly. Of course, there are no specific casino games for women, but what do women prefer? Casino statistics show that women spend more time playing bingo, slot machines and, surprisingly, also online poker.

Why do women gamble?

There is a fundamental difference in the views of men and women on gambling. The difference in opinion is a consequence of the difference in the perception of gambling between men and women. So, if you ask a woman to describe a visit to a casino, most likely she will start talking about the atmosphere of the casino, about the people she met there, about her feelings and emotions about it. If a man begins to describe a casino, then you will hear a completely different story: about how he got lucky at roulette, or got a greedy slot machine, or about what cards he got in blackjack - and his story will always revolve around the money he won or lost.

There is a perception that gambling is an escape from everyday life for women and that they prefer games with less action and creativity. Generally, women prefer to enjoy the game when they are financially and personally independent. Women go to the casino to have a good time, they don't care about all the little things like winning and losing - they spend their time as if they are on vacation and enjoy every minute of their stay in the casino.

If you try to answer the question of what is the main reason for women to gamble, then it is impossible to choose just one; there are at least three of them:

Firstly, gambling is a very good escape from problems. Women can gamble carefree and not worry about who looked at them and how or who thought what about them.

Secondly, gambling is an excellent source of entertainment and pleasure for established and wealthy ladies.

Third, some women actually gamble to get rich or improve their financial situation.

Based on these three reasons, we can conclude that women have quite good and quite reasonable reasons to gamble.

Bingo

Let's start with Bingo. This is an ancient game that dates back to 1530, and has since gained popularity around the world. In principle, bingo is considered a women's game, and in fact it is. There are over 100 million bingo players around the world, of which 70% are women. According to surveys conducted in the UK, 25% of respondents play twice a week or more. So why do women love bingo so much?

The reason is the social aspect of bingo - both in land-based casinos and online. Unlike men, women do not play for thrills. They love to socialize and bingo is without a doubt the most sociable form of gambling. In online bingo, chat functionality is very important so that the player can have fun and play at the same time, as you can see in the screenshot.

It's almost like a bingo hall in a casino, where you can chat and play. When you take this into account, it is no wonder that online bingo has been such a huge success. Bingo has always been a popular social game, and now it has deservedly achieved such popularity online. Games of skill such as poker and blackjack have always been more popular among men due to their addictive nature. Women love bingo because it is a simple game that requires less of their attention, making it more suitable for social interaction.

In addition, slots attract women with low stakes, because they do not want big wins, but just entertainment, to enjoy the game. Slot machines and bingo are the most cost-effective form of gambling and this attracts women. It is low-stakes games that are very popular among female players.

Online poker

Before the advent of online gambling, poker could only be played in land-based casinos and poker rooms. And such establishments are not the most hospitable places for women. Poker was considered a truly man's game; if a woman appeared at the table, she most often became the object of ridicule and disparaging remarks. But online poker has protected women from snide remarks and insults. Online poker is no longer a male-dominated game.

Recently, thanks to the communication capabilities provided by the Internet, the situation has changed. Women are starting to compete with men in online casinos. Statistics say that currently the percentage of female players in various online poker rooms ranges from 30% to 60%. Thanks to online qualifying games, in particular the World Series of Poker, women have begun to explore offline tournaments. In recent years, the poker world has produced many female winners, such as Annie Duke and Victoria Koren, Liv Boeree and Vanessa Selbst.

How the Internet has affected

Before the advent of the Internet in land-based casinos, the distribution of games seemed simple and clear:

women played simple, low-stakes gambling games such as slots and bingo;

men preferred to play complex board games with higher stakes.

However, in online gaming, these boundaries are blurred, and the number of female players online is growing very quickly. The advent of the Internet changed everything, and the world of gambling was no exception.

In 2011, 10,000 online players were surveyed in the UK and the survey found that 48% of players in online casinos were women. Most of them prefer video slots and bingo. Comparative data on bankroll management and time are also interesting: women make an average deposit of 67 euros, men - 94 euros. In principle, it is not surprising that women lose less money, but they play more! On average, women play nine hours a month, while men play only six and a half hours.

Research also suggests that more women are now visiting an online casino for the first time rather than a land-based gambling establishment. This is due to various reasons. To begin with, the Internet environment gives women a sense of comfort and anonymity, they get the opportunity to participate in those games that have always been considered the preserve of men. Thanks to the anonymity of online casinos, women can feel more confident when surrounded by many male players.

From online to offline

In recent years, the number of female players in land-based casinos has also increased significantly. This is because after gaining online gaming skills, women become more confident that they can actually play well and this gives them the courage to face their male rivals. In fact, in the last few years, the number of women who have taken part in the World Poker Tour, as well as the World Series of Poker, has increased enormously. And most of them got their wings by starting to play online.

An example of such a woman is Annette Obrestad. A young girl from Norway initially made a name for herself in online poker. She started playing at the age of fifteen and, with childish naivety, took the nickname Annette_15. Thanks to anonymity online, she was able to play, despite the fact that gambling in Sweden is only legal for people aged 18 or over. Without making a single deposit, Annette built her bankroll through freerolls and began winning serious money. She has won several major tournaments, including the $500,000 Pokerstars tournament, the $500,000 UltimateBet tournament, and the $136,000 Full Tilt Poker tournament.

She was so good that she could win without even looking at her cards. During one tournament, she covered part of the monitor with duct tape so she couldn't see her own cards. Thanks to her perfect art of bluffing and her ability to read her opponents, she outplayed 180 other players to win the tournament that made Annette a legend.

The day before Annette came of age, she achieved her most significant victory yet - in 2007, she won the inaugural World Series of Poker Europe (WSOPE) tournament. Having won $2.1 million, she set a new record: this is the largest prize that a woman has been able to win in the history of poker. This victory not only made her the only woman to win a WSOPE Main Event, but also the youngest person, either female or male, to win a WSOP bracelet.

Conclusion

Most women are social creatures, and they prefer games that allow them to chat - like bingo with a chat feature. Unlike men, they have no desire to dominate or experience thrills. Instead, they like games to be simple and have fun. Women do not have to reach the top and this is the reason why they are attracted to slot machines and bingo. At the same time, more and more women are starting to play online poker, which has allowed them to get rid of annoying male attention.

Over the past few years, a mixture of female talent and tenacity has helped level the playing field for women, both in casinos and especially in online gaming. It is already clear that thanks to women there have been significant changes in gambling, thus the world of gaming continues to develop.

If everything is more or less clear with men, then women still haven’t figured it out with their objects for dating. It’s understandable, women love in an unknown place, or even a place at all. I often thought about this question when some beauty fell for me, and the ugly girl, who had every chance of approaching her, sent me to hell. Sex is one thing, since both a man and a woman are predisposed to such an acquaintance, but it is not possible to prolong the relationship every time. And all because our beauties have not even seven Fridays a week, but eight or nine. Even women themselves know that they cannot predict changes in their dating preferences. Today they are drawn to hooligans, who smell of cigarettes and are constantly tipsy, and tomorrow they want higher matters, poetry, walks under the moon and a hand when getting off the tram.

I asked my respondents about the reasons for this behavior, but I didn’t really learn anything, and then I turned on my own brains to understand all the subtleties of female metamorphoses with a preference for the opposite sex. I hope that my thoughts will be interesting not only to men, but also to women themselves, otherwise they will break their beautiful heads in thought. Along the way, all preferences of the weaker sex for dating are determined by their own benefit. Yes, the expression “love is evil, you will love a goat” is more likely a desire of women to take a man’s life away; none of the ladies expresses a desire to make friends with goats. Let them catch me in a lie, but in everyone, even the most goatish goat in the form of a man, there are some qualities attractive to a woman, money, for example. Someone once tried to tell me that love is not for sale, but out of two candidates he chose not the one for whom he had great feelings.

So women, in their dating preferences, give them to potentially profitable partners, initially focusing on benefits. Women in this case are three orders of magnitude smarter than men, who fall for a pretty face, large breasts and a slender figure. Everything else appears later, when the acquaintance has already taken place. For women, if this is not the actress’s last appearance, everything is carefully considered. As a rule, if the relationship is supposed to be short-term, the male is chosen to be handsome, sexy, athletic, active, and everything in that style. But if a woman has plans for the future, then appearance and internal content no longer dominate. Here everything is learned through a combination of comparisons. That's why many handsome men are puzzled when outspoken outsiders cuckold them.

What do women fall for?

There is no ideal among men, there never was, and there cannot be. And all because our ladies do not have a permanent opinion on this matter. I don’t drink, I don’t smoke, I’m an athlete (relatively speaking), I have my own business and I’m not alone. As for sexual training, you can judge for yourself by the volume of the tome, which on occasion can kill and, nevertheless, did not work out. This is precisely what is incomprehensible to men, and women too. Ask anyone to name ten positions based on which she would choose a man to date and ask her again after a month - half of the positions will not match. And how the opinion of women changes with age... that is why it is only possible to calculate what our beauties fall for only relatively. Let's start with the fact that in terms of the importance of positions compared to men's, the difference is quite significant:

- ears

Yes, more than 50% of women can be fawned, that is, simply talked out of with the most banal compliments. At the same time, they can forgive a man for his appearance, athletic training and almost everything else with the exception of sexual activity. If you don't satisfy a woman sexually, then chatting won't last long. Personally, I have been convinced more than once that the weaker sex loves with its ears, so a chatterbox is a godsend not only for a spy, but also for a woman. I also like to talk, which may be why, despite my undistinguished appearance, I have never been deprived of female attention. Just don’t think that if he’s a talker, then he’s a generalist. In fact, what pleases the ears of one person may not please another.

- eyes

In second place in terms of the degree of arousal of female curiosity to meet a man is the optic nerve. It is visually that 30% of ladies fall for the male image. They just look at men differently. If young ladies, then, first of all, evaluate the face, then the figure and what bulges in the pants as an indicator of male sexuality, then girls who have known a little about the masculine essence begin a visual assessment in the reverse order. Women in this regard are much more attentive than men, and if they are easy to fool with the help of makeup, corsets and busts with pumping, then such methods do not exist for ladies. But even if all external realities are undeniable standards, there are still several evaluation posts that not every handsome man with an athletic figure can pass.

- tactile

Acquaintance on a tactile basis, as a rule, begins in dance. It is in dance that the weaker sex feels the support of the stronger, and the desire of this lady to find such an acquaintance depends on how she makes an impression. Many males do not attach the importance to dances that they have for females. Yes, if you want to know, sometimes to get acquainted it is enough to gallantly shake your hand to a beauty when getting into a taxi or getting off a trolleybus. A light but firm squeeze at this moment will convey at least thirty sheets of all kinds of information, from which the woman will understand everything you wanted to tell her. About 10% of women are delighted with the gallantry of men who, on occasion, give the opportunity to touch their body, and if it is created for female touches, then the mere thought of such an opportunity will be enough for any person to make every attempt to get acquainted.

- smell

If men's noses mainly react to the stench, and do nothing to distinguish between shades of aromas, then for 10% of women such things are dominant. Sometimes it’s enough to figure out a woman’s favorite scent so that you can meet her despite all the negative preconditions. For a man, the main thing is to attract attention, and in dating, this is precisely the aroma exuded by a man. It’s like mine - all it takes is the appearance of one acquaintance, after which the entire female team discusses his advantages and disadvantages until the very end of the working day. It's simple, its individual scent remains for many minutes, but the memory of it lasts for many hours. Some men consider their natural scents to be overly stimulating, but this is self-deception; in reality, the aroma from sweat and unwashed genitals provokes only a small percentage of perverts, who are not so easy to find, to become acquainted.

Objects for dating among men

Now let’s talk about women’s preferences in dating, since women have many more such items in their arsenal than men. It only seems as if a man chooses a girlfriend for acquaintance, in fact, it is the girlfriend who allows herself to be chosen, but sometimes she does not allow her. That's why we're talking about women's choice:

Alcoholics

I didn’t make a mistake, in reality there are wonderful creatures who dedicate their young years to pulling men out of alcohol addiction. Either they are fulfilling some kind of duty, or they really want to go down in history as great martyrs, but often quite normal-looking ladies meet somewhat drunken gentlemen. It’s understandable without words, if a couple of dates take place under the influence of alcohol, then everyone else will be no better, but, nevertheless, relationships begin and often grow into the aisle. I personally witnessed such acquaintances, more than once.

Alphonse

Let women not agree with me in this statement of mine, but they fall for gigolos in vain. I agree, these guys are an order of magnitude more active than usual, and outwardly they win, but the result of such a connection is predictable. And, nevertheless, women still meet gigolos. But I know why this happens - every lady is so confident in her irresistibility that she believes that this handsome guy, about whom all her friends are crazy, will stop at her. I know guys who ride a ball like this all their lives, taking advantage of women’s kindness and stupidity. But this does not mean at all that I condemn such gigolos; maybe women have offended these guys much more bitterly in their lives.

Womanizers

It’s an offensive nickname, because it was invented by women themselves and smacks of negativity. I would call them lovers of women. Among men there is a group that don’t feed them bread, let them hold their breasts; by the way, I consider myself precisely in this category of men. Women are drawn to such people, because everything that is needed from a male man can be obtained here with interest. For men of this mindset, every woman becomes desirable, and it is this weakness that ladies take advantage of when making acquaintances with womanizers. Yes, there is a turnover, but everyone breaks up, leaving in their hearts a piece of the happiness that they managed to receive in a short period of this very mental-genital contact.

Blatnye

Many women dream of a non-feminized man who is able to prove himself as a real male, categorical, cool and sexy. As a rule, such qualities are possessed by people who have gone through the harsh school of life in prison. Usually, those ladies who long to be enslaved in everything, to fulfill any whim of their man at their first desire, without burdening themselves with unnecessary thoughts, are drawn to such people. The more correct the upbringing, the more such a beauty is drawn to criminal asocial elements and, according to my observations, this is natural.

Botanists

Women as women have extremely limited attraction to nerds, that is, those representatives of the male world who are focused on mental labor at the expense of physical labor. But only as long as the botanist teaches in a parish school on the tenth grid. But as soon as a prospect appears, or as soon as the abstruse ancestors give the bespectacled man a hefty inheritance, such as a five-room apartment in an elite building, he has many admirers among the opposite sex, and even his own. And in the era of junkies - aliks - fagots, even nerds look like desirable males, and where should the weaker sex go, they want to live a sexual life.

Gays

Women in male guise, as well as men who prefer men, are also in demand among the fairer sex. The fact is that in some social strata, belonging to sexual minorities has not yet been fully registered. And so-called gays have to disguise themselves as straight people. Knowing this situation, many beauties make acquaintances in such an environment, since you can not only make a career, but also become a disguise for a high-ranking lover of male affection. Among my acquaintances there are more than one such girls, especially since such girls are not forbidden to walk to the left.

Goblins

Youngsters and those ladies who grew up with the idea of ​​a cool partner in all matters gravitate towards this class of male natures. Strong shoulders and a shaved head for many to this day are a symbol of future prosperity and success in all endeavors. That is why such guys, if they really represent what girls dream of, are in extraordinary demand in dating. And it doesn’t matter that many are overly fed with steroids and have read only a few pages of the primer - for some women this is not an indicator at the initial stage of dating.

Virgins

There are nerds who succeed in monosex and simply crave having a cool “chick,” and there are nerds who don’t give a damn about sex at all, since their mother drilled into them from childhood that it is not only a dirty business, but also a thankless one. Under the weight of irrefutable evidence, guys grow up to be virgins not only on their heads, but also on their heads. Oddly enough, but for dating, not only similar virgins are interested in such people, but also real freaks. Yes, as support and domestic labor, many girls who have seen life meet virgins, fortunately it is easy and simple to mislead the “stupid girls”.

Married

It is typical for many women to meet men who are already busy, fortunately there is an opportunity to see what they will be like in business, and in body at the same time. Of course, there are some difficulties with winning a guy from an old girlfriend, but if the game is worth the candle, then why not fight. Again, if the man himself doesn’t mind, the task becomes even simpler.

Lovers

The most common one is acquaintance for the sake of love affairs, which naturally includes sexual intercourse. Getting to know a lover can occur in parallel with any other types of dating, so it is typical for all subtypes of the penisless community.

Majors

The desire for a comfortable existence is characteristic of the vast majority of women on our planet. It’s understandable, it’s all genetic. And who can give such well-being is the one who has money. One of these divisions in the male environment are the majors, that is, the children of rich parents, all sorts of stars, in short, idols. It is they who are constantly hunted by the weaker sex, and an acquaintance of this kind is considered extraordinary luck.

Nariki

During adolescence, many girls fall into denial and do everything possible to oppose themselves to the whole world. It is at this moment that guys with “peeing eyes” appear on their horizon, relaxed and imposing, for whom life in this world has already ended, but in the other has not yet begun. For some reason, getting involved in drug culture has become considered fashionable, and to enter into it you need a comrade. Then you will have to curse such an acquaintance for the remaining months of your life, while your fading consciousness tries to remember at least something, but at first such a partnership looks cool.

Daddies

Here everything looks clear - either lack of care from a male parent in childhood, or the desire to become independent, thanks to the connections and money of a male already formed in all respects. As a rule, those ladies who choose these same daddies for acquaintance often have something to show and something to say, too.

Righteous

A small group of men who, for some reason beyond their control, preach something bright, unshakable and eternal. Naturally, those women who are disappointed with ordinary life or are fed up with it get acquainted with such people. It’s good if such righteous people are not charlatans of some sect, but this happens extremely rarely. Basically, for the weaker sex, such an acquaintance does not change anything, only mentally it is framed in a slightly different light.

Snotty

Pedophilia is not only characteristic of men; many ladies are also not averse to luring into their networks a snotty young man who will listen to her speeches and actions with his mouth open. And shaking off the memories of youth is quite an exciting thing, just the amount of endorphins it will bring to the surface. The higher the status of a woman, the more often she gets the chance to meet young guys and this is a fact.

Old farts

Mostly, marriage swindlers, as well as simply swindlers, meet older men, since a sugar daddy is quite enough for a normal woman for such purposes. But if it is necessary to at least imitate ordinary life, the old man can be fooled to the fullest. The greater the assets of such an old man, the greater his chances of being attacked by women for the purpose of dating. No, ordinary old men can also hope for a similar situation, women’s needs are all different, and if you give some an apartment, gold, money, others will be quite satisfied with a glass of moonshine...

Hard workers

There are still ordinary men on earth, who, as always, are the absolute majority, at least in the vast expanses of our vastness. Naturally, for every woman there is not enough representative of the profitable categories of the male fraternity, so we have to be content with what we have.

Drones

Among women there are so-called masochists, that is, people who like to create problems for themselves. It is precisely these people who, with some kind of inner instinct, figure out the kind of guy whose victim they are about to become. They work three jobs, raise a bunch of children and support their male, who can’t find a job, but does nothing but use the services of his passion.

Teapots

The same snotty ones, as well as those who remain snotty into old age, are considered by me to be dummies, that is, beginners in relationships with the opposite sex. Such guys are not particularly in demand, but if they have any special features, then they will not be left without those who want to get to know them. It’s only later that ladies can see the light, but initially they also occupy a worthy place in the ranking of women’s preferences.

It’s clear that I couldn’t cover all male statuses, but if you want, you can find yourself in any intermediate stage. What is typical is that there are no slop objects for partner intersexual dating. I agree, none of the women will look for an outright drunk, but if he refuses to talk with the green serpent at least until he sobers up, washes and shave, then his acquaintance with the fair sex is guaranteed.

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Sexual preferences

or Triggers for orgasm

Everyone has their own preferences in sex. These are called orgasm triggers. It's kind of a switch. The trigger is responsible for whether orgasm occurs after sexual arousal or not.

Most women have individual preferences. For many, moral standards do not allow them to open the horizons of sensuality. From a psychological point of view, there is one more point that prevents the “flight” of lovers. This somatization of internal psychological conflicts. It blocks the disclosure of the mentioned possibilities and is directly related to the motorization of the same internal conflicts.

The reasons for arousal and orgasm are individual: what lovers like is considered the norm - as long as there are no obsessive states, destructive or criminal behavior.

The main cause of conflicts and divorces is sexual dissatisfaction.

Sexual dissatisfaction, in turn, stems from the fact that most lovers have no idea what orgasm triggers or combinations thereof are preferred by their partners. They are prone to one preference, but receive as caresses what their partner desires. Therefore, in the methods of most sexologists, an effective path has now been determined: identifying individual triggers for orgasm, correcting extravagant and sometimes even obscene triggers, adjusting the adjusted triggers of lovers to each other.

This is especially true for women, since their body is genetically much more complex than a man’s. They may have very complex fantasies and preferences, which a man, even theoretically, is not always able to understand.

Meditative training “Detecting triggers for orgasm using figurative visualization of erogenous and non-erogenous zones during mental reproduction of sexual tactile sensations” provides a huge variety of options for triggers and their combinations. Some of them need to be known at least theoretically.

There are several methods for stimulating a partner's sexual function. Intuitively, many lovers do everything right. But there are also those who need this information. In all these methods, the most important thing is to know how to make sure that the partner’s sexual function not only does not fade away, but is in an active state and is always ready for action. Then you will definitely get what you want. Maintaining it is work that requires skill, patience, and time. Are you ready for unimaginable costs? Will you be able to “step over” your own “I” in sexual preferences.

Your expenses in this sense are the key to long-term happiness. Sometimes you need to try to love something that you either don’t care about, or that causes inconvenience, stress, or even don’t like. The key to the technique is simple. Consistency in observations or surveys and knowledge of the details of how the partner likes to do it. Using the partner’s “erogenous code” and high-quality sex-role stimulation will lead to the activity of the higher system of movements, and you will gain access to the body’s reserve capabilities.

Pay attention to your partner's caresses. Do the same in return!

After all, wanting to please, we usually offer our partner what we would like to receive ourselves: we regularly stimulate those erogenous zones that we ourselves like.

Sometimes we stimulate the same erogenous zones for ourselves when we wake up or are nervous. After sleep, they may not be perceived as erogenous, but they should be remembered. Often we engage in such “masturbation” unconsciously. Therefore, you just have to watch a person’s movements, his touches on his own body, when he wakes up, is nervous or scared, and part of the partner’s “erogenous code” will become clear.

Hair, ears, lips, neck, chest, genitals are areas where energy channels pass. Pet them as often as possible. A little knowledge, patience, affection and attention, and the “erogenous code” of your partner will become understandable and accessible to you. And one more piece of advice.

Any sexual preferences against the background of frank, passionate moans and screams will become even more preferable.

It is necessary to moan with preliminary soft sobs - this activates the cleaning of the body’s energy channels. A man subconsciously perceives such sounds as admiration for him and his caresses. The technique of “Preliminary sweet words, soft moans, emotions and sobs” is studied as one of the 27 main types of orgasm.

How can such individual sexual preferences be reliably determined? How to determine them externally, without delving deeply into the essence of the problems of both partners? I answer: for example, with the help of motor skills, gestures, which are hidden sexual signals.

All the gestures described in this book are signs of orgasm triggers. For their high-quality reading, the knowledge of a specialist is required, and this is partly a limitation in their use. I chose the simpler path.

I suggest that those who need it simply adjust their gestures in the direction in which they want to develop in their relationship with their partner.

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us. They easily give in to animal urges, they are aggressive and overly sexual, and prone to alcoholism. Any person - both man and woman - should strive for the opposite qualities: to be gentle, delicate, neat, restrained in feelings.” These are exactly the qualities that a parent with PZhK sees in women. An example of the manifestation of PZhK is a father who sees a lot of shortcomings in his son and believes that all his peers are like that. At the same time, this father is “crazy” about his daughter and sees only merit in her. Under the influence of PZhK in this case, the type of education “emotional rejection” is formed in relation to a male teenager. The opposite bias is also possible - with a pronounced anti-feminist attitude, disdain for the child’s mother and his sisters. In this case, a parenting style of “indulgent hyperprotection” is formed in relation to the child himself.

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Actually, these are not such secrets. Men often declare their desires, only in the manner of presenting the material they sometimes differ little from women, managing to veil their preferences in a very intricate way. For women, male tricks are not a problem. Another thing is that sometimes it is much more convenient to remain in ignorance. And then all the power of the male temperament falls on the pages of the Internet. Looking into them, we can draw some conclusions.

Leading position

As virtual surveys show, Most men are turned on by latex lingerie, striptease, slow petting and women's gasps during sex. Quite a normal set for the average man, nothing extraordinary, super extravagant or extreme. And most importantly, their preferences fully correspond to women’s desires, perhaps with the exception of latex lingerie. This “luxury” is not present in every woman’s wardrobe. And it's okay. White lace panties, it turns out, also “go” well, yielding several positions to the shine of latex.

As for striptease, there are no discoveries; it is in demand in a huge number of strip clubs spread across the vast expanses of our homeland. And since men like to watch us undress so much, why not give them this opportunity? The main thing is to learn how to do it correctly.

Men also refute the established myth about male egoism and inattention. They say that the main thing for them is to satisfy themselves, and as quickly as possible. Nothing like this! Men, it turns out, also love to amuse themselves with competent foreplay of love and are ready to devote half an hour or more to it. All this time they prefer to undress their partner with kisses and caresses, slowly bringing her to ecstasy.

As it turned out, there are not so many lovers of quick sex - only 7%. It is not clear why there are so many women’s complaints, interspersed next to men’s assurances of their “responsiveness.”

Men consider “moans of passion” to be the main indicator of female sexuality. The strength of the decibels, in their opinion, indicates male viability. But “guerrilla valor” during sex is not welcome. For a man's ego, it is much preferable to listen to all sorts of obscenities than to observe the complete silence of his partner. Some experts even believe that every woman expresses her exaltation in her own way; no two “moans” are identical.

Middle management

The “this way and that” section includes kisses, porn films, poses when a woman is on top or on the side and - attention! - oral sex. We women know that men do not give kisses the attention they deserve. Men, in turn, do not understand our attachment to this type of pleasure. After all, for many representatives of the fairer sex, kissing is sometimes much more important than sexual intercourse, and this, according to men’s standards, is completely “out of the question.” In order to respect our affection, they, it turns out, are not averse to pampering their mistresses with their ability to kiss, but they really ask us not to exclude sexual intercourse.

In the abundance of sexual positions, everyone undoubtedly has their own preferences. And the puritanical integrity of the “missionary classics” is far from being in the forefront. Men like the position when they are from behind (30%). The cowgirl position is not far behind. And it’s not bad for men if all this “disgrace” is illuminated by the soft light of candles or a night light. Sex in pitch darkness, as in full light, is equally discouraged.

67% versus 33% preferred traditional sexual intercourse to the detriment of oral sex, stipulating the indispensable presence of oral sex as a separate condition.

Outsiders

The list is rounded off by cool scenes from erotic movies, conversations during intercourse, daytime sex and excessive shyness of the partner.

The fact that most men cannot stand tear-sweet erotic stories is no secret to the bigwigs of the film business. They do not hide the fact that caramel movie fairy tales with a small dose of “strawberry” are intended for female “use.” For men, there is a separate industry of porn cinema. However, this genre has many fans among ladies.

A woman’s ability to ruin the “high” during love intercourse with extraneous conversations drives men into a frenzy. In fact, only a woman can, in a moment of exaltation, suddenly inform her partner that her mother is coming to visit tomorrow (with whom he is in a perpendicular relationship), or that she bought new shoes with the money she saved for a car. In principle, men don’t mind listening to our news and discussions, but only after sex.

Sexologists believe that the best time for “sexual activity” is 3-4 pm. However, it is difficult to “promote” sex at this time not only for women, but, as it turns out, for men as well. The leading positions, and by a large margin - 60%, are held by evening sex, morning sex - 30%, There are very few people who want to make love during the day. Moreover, most normal people are at work at this time, which technically makes it extremely difficult to implement the recommendations of sexologists.

Men are not against satisfying women's desires, but we need to make them understand what we want. Considering women's modesty, they agree to be content with hints, and not complicated ones. You just need to take his hand and direct it to the “right place”, and he himself will figure out what to do. Women's modesty satisfies only 3% of respondents, who believe that they know how to please a lady even without additional hints.

In a fantasy world

It wouldn’t hurt to find out what our men dream about and what their sexual fantasies revolve around. Yes around threesome (64%)! Options vary only regarding the candidacy of a third party. Some see this role as a friend of their beloved woman, others as a dancer from a strip bar, and still others as a casual acquaintance. 26% dream of being tied up at least once in their life (handcuffed) and given over to the will of a woman's fantasy. A slightly smaller number of gentlemen would like to tie their girlfriend. And almost everything (85%) they want to one day hear from a woman’s lips some deliciously obscene proposal to have sex.

Review prepared by Joanna BENEVETSKAYA