How to interest a man: the right ways. Three surefire ways to captivate a man and keep his interest for a long time

Why do men of some women do not want to let go, constantly run after them, try to keep them by any means (by offering money, getting married, etc.), while other women, the maximum they can count on, is meeting for sex without any special obligations?

What is the reason?

It is clear that these are two different types of women. Some can captivate a man seriously and for a long time, for life, others - at best for one or two months, maximum - for six months.

Let's try to describe the main features that distinguish the first women from the second.

The first sign is that a woman cannot stand a man's brain. (does not exhaust the soul)

The removal of the brain is the first, second and third reasons that men name when they break up with a woman or, at least, begin to communicate with her less. (You can call it differently, but the essence is the same)

What is this at least strange behavior on the part of a woman? (strange for men, of course 🙂).

How does it manifest? Let's say a man doesn't do something or does something wrong. That is, he did not do something around the house, forgot something, did not think it out somewhere, was late, said the wrong thing or, on the contrary, kept silent. (and this is all pretty typical behavior for an untrained man)

But back to the usual man's jambs. A man is trying to prove to a woman that he hasn't done anything terrible, that it's a common thing to forget something or do something differently than she wanted. That enough an apology on his part, and you can move on.

A woman on such words, when carrying out her brain, starts even stronger. Or offended to be silent for several days. She demands repentance from a man, almost begging for forgiveness. And so in a circle. The man is trying to prove that he has not done anything special, and the woman, seeing that he does not understand, raises the degree of the conflict by a couple more points. And all because of some nonsense.

But when it comes to "taking out the brain", then always, from the male point of view, the reaction of a woman to the usual, standard joint of a man is completely disproportionate to this joint.

It is as if a woman was going to get together for 10 minutes longer than a man, since she needed to put on makeup, and then the man would yell at her for 2 hours about how bad it was. At her apology, he would have yelled even more and shouted that she does not understand how important it is to get ready quickly).

It is clear that the constant "takeaway" of the brain leads to a breakdown in relations. If this is a marriage and breakup is simply impossible, then the man begins to somehow defend himself. That is, he stops doing something in principle, ignores the requests of his wife, which ultimately leads to the same divorce, it does not matter on whose initiative.

Why are there such "takeaways" on the part of a woman? After all, such behavior clearly does not increase her chances for a man to be carried away by her and not let her go.

The main thing, of course, is the difference in the psychology of men and women, but not only that.

In other words, what is super important for women, men seem to be a common mistake for which you need to apologize and forget. (and vice versa, of course)

But let's repeat what I wrote already, probably in 20 articles, no less.

The world of a woman is a relationship with a man, with friends, the importance of creating a family. Not her whole world, of course, but very important.

The world of a man is work, sports, friends, money, cars, etc. and including a woman and a family.

In other words, what is important for a woman is very often not so important for a man.

Didn't you call? But he was at football or was busy at work, and she knew about it.

Late? But after all, his project is on fire or study, and how she does not understand. (Priorities are different)

What to do?

It is clear that the easiest path lies somewhere in the middle. It is almost impossible for a woman to completely remake herself. So a man, if he loves a woman and wants to build a relationship with her, must somehow adjust to the woman and master some important moments for her. I don't know which one it is for you. But don't let there be too many of them.

Maybe it's not to be late, maybe call once every half day, maybe something else.

But now we are not talking about men, but about women.

To put it simply, women who can't stand the mind of men (they can stand it less) on every occasion are rare and men value such women and try not to let go.

And here, as usual, I want to warn about the other extreme, when a woman is completely indifferent to a man. She doesn't care if he is late or not, or even better if he doesn't come home at all.

She is all the time busy with something, then yoga, then dancing, then girlfriends and there is no time and / or desire for a man. This is also extreme, and this is not what I mean.

The point is that a woman appreciates a man, wants to be with him, but his brain cannot stand him if a man makes some ordinary life mistakes. Such women, I repeat, are rare. And, as a rule, it is these women who are happy in family life. Because they know how not only to captivate a man and keep him, but also know how to create a state of love in a man for many years.

So let's briefly summarize a small summary. Women who cannot stand a man's brain and at the same time are in love with him are rare. Try to be one of those. That is, think about the reasons for which you have a scandal. What are these reasons? How is a man justified?

Can you not react so intensely (or not at all) to a man's mistakes and, no less important, quickly forgive him when he says "Sorry" or something like that?

Play this several times in your head. I assure you, if you can change your behavior, then your relationship with men will move to a whole new level.

Of course, it makes sense to talk to a man about what is important to you and what you do not want to change. (Again, if these are not calls every 20-30 minutes)

And again, here you need to warn about the extremes that I talked about above. That is, about indifference to a man.

Let me remind you that taking the brain out of a man's definition is a completely disproportionate and irrational critical reaction of a woman (scandal, silence, etc.) to some of his mistakes and in subsequent attempts by a man to explain that this is a common thing, an intensification of the conflict.

In primitive cases, it looks ridiculous (100 calls a day with complaints), but in more subtle cases, women often do not even notice such a feature of communication.

The second is self-respect..

I have already written quite a few articles and books both on my blog and on the site "Sunny Hands" about women's self-esteem. But in this article I cannot but touch on this topic.

Well, an ordinary man will not hold on to a woman who has no self-esteem inside. (Exceptions just prove the rule)

What is women's self-esteem and how is it manifested?

- A woman behaves in about the same way, regardless of whether she likes a man, she is in love with him, or she likes him moderately.

If a woman does not have self-esteem, then the following error occurs. For example, if a man is caring for a woman, but she especially does not like it, then she can send him, does not think about him, goes about her business, etc.

But as soon as the “man-prince” appears on the horizon, the behavior of a woman with low self-esteem changes radically. ( I want a prince as my bridegroom) She already looks at him with devoted eyes, dreams of him constantly, responds to the slightest signs of attention, easily forgives and does not even notice disrespect for herself.

However, a woman with adequate self-esteem and normal self-respect does not look at her feelings, not at what kind of man (handsome, rich, etc.), but only at how he treats her. She looks and evaluates a man by his actions.

It doesn't matter if she's in love or not. This does not change her behavior much. If a man treats her well, then she treats him well. If a man treats her badly, then even if he is a prince, she will not flirt with him or even communicate at all.

- A woman has her own life.

No matter how much I write about it, I still have to explain in detail at trainings and consultations. (information on consultations)

Many girls are waiting for a certain man. And when such a man appears, she tries to "hang" on him with her problems, her feelings (love), her friends and something else.

And to some extent this is correct, since a man is usually a little stronger than a woman psychologically, financially, etc.

In fact, a man wants to join the life of a happy, confident woman who copes with her problems on her own (mostly copes, at least), and not constantly pull a woman who has “eternal problems”.

This is women's self-respect.

And when you are like that, the man will gladly join you, will gladly help you with his time, money, and everything that he has. But if you are waiting for a prince who will sort out a bunch of problems that you yourself do not solve and are not even going to solve, since you are hoping for someone who will solve your problems, then it will be very difficult to captivate a man.

— A woman gives a man a right to her life.

A man is not a woman's property, even if they have a bunch of children, a family, joint property, etc.

Everyone has the right to their own thoughts, time, disagreement with each other's opinion, the right to their mistakes, etc.

For a woman with self-respect, this is not even negotiable. She herself has her own inner world, which is partially closed for a man and, accordingly, she recognizes such a right for a man.

If self-respect is not enough, then often no rights are recognized for a man. (as well as for itself) Consequence - conflicts, in fact, from scratch. "You don't spend your free time that way, you think not that way, you are friends with the wrong people, you read something else, etc."(although sometimes the woman is not touched or hurt in any way)

— A woman with self-respect looks after her appearance, home, etc..

It is foolish to deny that self-respect is respect for oneself and, in particular, for one's appearance. And how can a real woman respect herself if she does not care about her appearance? It's pretty tricky unless a bunch of inadequacies are included. (I am fat and with bad clothes, but men love me because I am smart and confident.)

I won't talk a lot about self-esteem in this article. But let me remind you that a man will never love a woman seriously and for a long time, whose self-respect is at zero. (Unless he himself has a deep bottom and a minus).

And vice versa. Often a man falls in love with a woman who has self-respect and ceases to notice any flaws in appearance, character, etc.

The third is the right man.

The right man is the third stone in the foundation of capturing a man so that he will never let you go.

It often happens that a woman finds a man whom she likes for one reason or another and tries to build a relationship with him.

And rightly so, if this is the right man.

But there are quite a few men with whom it is almost useless to build relationships or this is a task of incredible complexity. Better to avoid them and you can save yourself years of time and a ton of energy.

Who are these men who are not suitable for a serious relationship? I wrote about these in great detail in my book. "23 mistakes with men", this article is brief.

- Men who only want sex.

Men who want to drag a woman into bed on the first date are normal men and you can build relationships with them, even if the man thinks it is unrealistic. The main thing here is not to agree to sex at the first meeting, but to gradually build relationships.

But if all this is too rude, frankly, with manipulation by a man, then this type is clearly not suitable for a long-term relationship.

- Men who don't particularly like a woman.

I'm talking about a man's initiative. If he does not show initiative, if he does not call himself, does not organize a date, etc., then this is hardly a suitable man, or at least difficult.

And here, of course, it is necessary to encourage the initiative of a man, otherwise it may turn out that a man with a normal initiative, but does not want to seek the "snow queen". For example, if a man is running after you, organizing an evening, flowers or something else like that, then you at least smile, kiss him on the cheek, or something else like that. (let yourself be kissed)

- A man clearly outside the scope of the social status to which you correspond.

A man with many times more income, handsome, young, interesting, etc., than those who usually look after you, is usually not suitable for developing a relationship. This mistake is often found in beautiful women. Many men pretend to have sex with beautiful women. Relationships, however, will be ready to build anyway, approximately equal in status and value to men or slightly higher. An attempt to build a relationship with a man from a too different level is usually doomed to failure.

- Men are psychopaths.

I wrote a book about this "23 mistakes with men" and I will not write here.

- Men - Don Juans.

A very complex type, it is better not to even start. I also wrote about them more than once, including in the book.

- Men with obvious and strong bad habits. Alcoholism and other isms. I think it's clear here even without decoding.

- Men who clearly say they don't need a relationship... The reason is not important. It can be a difficult recent divorce, personality traits, etc.

If he says, then most likely he is. Rarely do men lie on this matter. Do not try to break and remake a man. Waste your time.

So, captivating a man is not that difficult. You just need to follow the basic principles. Let me remind you that this is a man's “brain can’t stand”, self-respect and the selection of a man suitable for you in terms of status and social position.

Best regards, Rashid Kirranov.

Every woman wants to have her soul mate next to her. So that he was there, understood and appreciated. But so often it is very difficult for women to find mutual understanding and "common language" with men. Sometimes the male sex is too intrusive and it is impossible to tolerate unnecessary harassment of "wrong" boyfriends. And sometimes you so want to draw attention to yourself, like it, win, in the end. But nothing happens.

Let's look at this important question - how to captivate a man and not lose his attention. Moreover, we will consider this topic from several angles - both at the first meeting and for couples who have been together for many years.

Of course, the theory “mini-skirt, heels, beautiful makeup, neckline of the blouse, confident gait” works. And you will certainly soon feel an interested male gaze on yourself. But another question: what kind of man will it be? And also - for which relationship? Perhaps you will attract his attention to yourself, but it is unlikely that you are really interested. Intrigue, romance, unobtrusive relationships - the maximum that you get. What kind of man will it be? Most likely, a young guy, inexperienced in relationships, who is interested in light entertainment. If you are interested in a serious relationship with a mature man who has taken place in life, then a beautiful appearance on your part will not be enough. After all, he will probably be interested not only in long legs, toned buttocks and beautiful breasts.

What's the secret?

And what is necessary to captivate a man so much that he achieves you and wants to communicate with you?

1. The first point of the rules is as follows - when a man feels that he will be able to please a woman, then he will certainly seek her and take care of her, if the man does not feel this, then he will not. And on the other hand, a woman should also feel that she wants the courtship of this man, and should behave accordingly. It can be said that there must be a sense of conformity. Both the man and the woman should feel that they fit together. And they should behave accordingly. But how should a woman behave so that a man understands that she is the only one he was looking for? Coquetry is the answer to the question. Let the man understand that you are not indifferent to him, he is interesting to you. So that he, at least, thought that it would not be a mistake to approach you.
2. The second is compliments. Don't be afraid to compliment a man! But watch out that this is not flattery. Compliment him for what he really does well - for example, drives a car, cooks, looks good.
3. The third principle is listen to the man. Listen especially to his achievements and exploits. Just do not show condescension and irony in any case. Admire him! Whatever he does, even if this is not news to you, praise him and listen, listen, and again, listen. He will certainly appreciate it. And if you reinforce this effect with questions of interest - how did he achieve it or how he did it - the result is definitely not to keep itself waiting for a long time.
   This rule almost always has a positive effect. Even when it seems to you that something is going wrong, know that you are wrong. A man, as a rule, can misunderstand something, think that he has no chance. Or, on the contrary, to think that he has a chance, in its complete absence. Therefore, the rule only works when there is a correspondence between the desires of a man and a woman.
4. The next golden rule in conquering a man is mystery. After all, if you immediately "open all the cards" in front of a man, he, at least, will not be interested. And this applies not only to sex. Quite the opposite! With regard to communication, attention, time of a woman. "There must be a mystery in a woman!" - says Vera from the legendary "Office Romance". A man is primarily a hunter. He must "hunt his prey." Must win her attention. He's a gambler. And as in any game, its end promises the disappearance of interest in it. And if a man wins and loses, interest and excitement increase. Therefore, warm up his desire for you. Support all of his actions, but also do not open up completely. Be interesting to him, play with him. Let him lose sometimes, among all his many wins. Affordable, head over heels in love, submissive woman is doomed to failure. Let him get a little nervous, run after you, let him choose an approach to you, let him open you and your qualities. You don't always need to agree with him, you don't need to hang yourself around his neck, you don't always need to indulge him. And then his interest in you will never disappear.

But, on the other hand, do not go too far. If you always win arguments, impose your opinion on him, show that you are always right, he will get tired of it just as quickly as in the previous case. And, as a minimum, he will find you a replacement in your favorite pastime (sports, hunting, fishing, friends, etc.), and, as a maximum, he will completely break off the relationship. He doesn't need to always tell him wrong. Try to be equal with him, both in everyday life and in other common affairs and activities.

Communication time and distance between you

At the beginning of a relationship, try to communicate more with the man you are interested in. This will be enough to get closer. After all, it is always easier to captivate a man with whom you spend some period of time together. This does not mean that it is necessary to immediately achieve it. Communication at any level is already bringing a man and a woman closer together. Find some excuse, an excuse to approach him once again, ask about something, ask any question. Try to be closer to him, but without excessive initiative (since remember that he should conquer you, not you).

This communication does not have to consist of positive impressions and emotions. Even if you argue a little, have a discussion, start a small conflict (without reaching hysterics), it will be better than absolutely no communication. You can be convinced of this on the example of the film "Girls", where the conflict became the start of a relationship. Showing a little aggressiveness at the beginning of communication can mean a man's disposition towards you. Indeed, even in childhood, boys show attention to girls by pulling their pigtails.

But very close distance does not always have a positive effect. So, colleagues who are always nearby are, of course, better than those men and women who are in different parts of the world, but far from the best option. To summarize, try to get closer to a man, communicate with him more often (but in moderation).

Competition between two men

Well, the competition of several men for one woman. Despite the criticism of this method, it can be argued that it works. The problem is that it can be misunderstood and misunderstood. Therefore, it is better to read this advice several times, and then try to implement it.

Give him a competition. This method works. Of course, here you need to be very careful, not to make mistakes, not to overdo it. Otherwise, the effect will be the opposite. But if everything is done correctly, then the method will definitely work.

So, the secret to the success of such actions. It is necessary to organize a kind of competition for several men for you. The psychology of the male sex is simple - these are animals in their essence, which are similar to each other. And as soon as one of them has a "female" (especially if a leader who is worthy of respect), many tend to attract her attention.

One has only to recall the example of the heroine of the Soviet film "The Most Charming and Attractive" - ​​as soon as the girl "found" (she herself set it up on the advice of a friend) for herself a respectable man, the real object of her dreams (and not only him, but also other men from her department) immediately became not indifferent to her.

As you can see, it works. If everything is correct and clever to undertake without making mistakes. Which ones? Let's consider.

Well, At first, you do not need to flirt with another man if you have "your own". This will cause a storm of indignation and angry jealousy. It is necessary that a stranger himself carefully showed you signs of attention, and your man "accidentally" noticed this. Well, you, of course, casually refused him.

The second mistake is the definition of the "authority" of a man. Everyone has different priorities, just like tastes. Of course, consistency, good looks and self-confidence are the most necessary qualities, but they do not always work. The most authoritative young man for one group of men will be the absolute losers for another. Therefore, try to determine what signs of "authority" are important for the object of your attention. Although it is often extremely difficult for a woman to determine this on her own.

Third mistake Is that you can rely on the man's continued interest from now on. This is not the case. Perhaps, as soon as the opponent disappears, interest will also disappear. You cannot be focused on this interest of a man, because he shows it in competition with other young people.

This is a method full of contradictions. But, in principle, effective. The main thing is to do everything correctly and intelligently. Consider each step in accordance with the points given in these tips. Every man will want to achieve an intelligent, wise woman, especially if he sees signs of attention in her direction from other men. # Secrets of female sexuality #

Carefree effect

Every man wants to feel carefree for a while. But, naturally, there are situations when it is better not to disturb a man. If he has a disorder in business, problems at work, chronic fatigue, lack of money, worries, in a word, if a man is full of worries and troubles, there is no time to flirt with him. He has to settle it all. Experiencing, perhaps, then he will have an interest. This also applies to married men. Despite public opinion, I would like to argue that if everything is fine in the family, then the man will not have time for unnecessary flirting.

And exactly the opposite - if a man is doing well, he is successful, things are going well, he will certainly want to have fun and share his successes with someone. Take advantage of the moment!

This, of course, also applies to men on vacation. That is why the concept of "resort romance" is so widespread. What is a holiday romance really? This is the time for a man when he can easily get close to women of interest to him, and most importantly, he forgets about his problems for a period of time. Rest, good mood, positive - all the ingredients for at least pleasant communication!

You can even form such an example law: "A man's attraction to a woman is directly proportional to the carelessness of this man at the moment." However, as well as vice versa.

You can benefit from this rule. Of course, you need to understand that a man who has a lot of problems will not look after a woman and will not develop a relationship. Better not even try to climb up to him. The display of attention and coquetry of a woman, which in another case he would certainly have accepted, will now be rejected. They can only annoy him. Wait until this man solves all his problems and is ready to communicate with you. You can also listen to a man, try to support him, share your experiences with him.

Quite the contrary, of course. If you find the right moment when a man successfully conducts his business, even the most insignificant, succeeds in business, his career is taking off, this man will definitely turn his attention to you.

These are the practical methods... Of course, men are different, as are situations. In some cases, women overdo it, leaving no choice to the man. And the male sex doesn't really like it. In other situations, a woman is inactive, and this man can also be frightened. You need to know when to stop in everything and act wisely. Every man needs to find his own approach.

A woman should not only be well-groomed, beautiful and delight the eyes of a man, but also interest him with her moral side, her developed intellectual life, her intelligence and morality. Surprise the man, make him think of you, reveal you like an unread book. A little cunning, wisdom, intelligence and charm - and you will certainly succeed!

Every day on the way there are more than one man, some throw interested glances and give compliments of varying degrees of innocence, but this is where it all ends. So how to captivate a man in order to really interest him? Many people think that an open dress and tall stilettos are enough to immediately begin to detect the signs of a keen man. But this is only a way to catch the first glance, in order to gain more sustainable interest, you will have to acquire not only beautiful clothes.

How to conquer a man?

Before making an offensive plan, it is worth learning more about the object of interest to you. Because the ways how to captivate a free work colleague and a married man cannot but differ. Of course, it is not necessary to draw up a complete dossier, but it will not hurt to get at least some information about him or his interests. Well, then you just need to demonstrate your interest, trying to stay with him more often in an informal setting or communicate on abstract topics. For a coworker, a lunch break or meeting at a smoking area might work. And the following guidelines will help you avoid the most common mistakes.

The signs of a passionate man will tell you that all your efforts are not in vain. For example, changing the timbre of your voice to a softer and more velvety one when communicating with you, the desire to attract your attention, looking for excuses for meeting you again. Sometimes, when talking with an interesting girl, a man shows signs of nervousness, loses his pace

How to captivate a man who is not interested in you yet? If you think that this can be done once or twice, then you are one of those persons who have a "mind is a tent."

A skirt, like a cuff for the buttocks, a bust falling out of the neckline, bright makeup - such means, of course, can seduce a man. But, just to seduce, and only for one or two nights, and far away, not everyone. To captivate a man so that he thinks, if not about a wedding, then at least about a serious relationship, with a swoop will not work, here you need a long siege, a clever strategy and correct tactics.

Before moving on to the strategy, I advise you to read one important advice - how to fall in love with a man so as not to make the most important mistake!

Who is not worth your time

* Impossibility of communication. It is very difficult to captivate a man who is at a decent distance from you, for example, who lives in another city. Of course, there are also cases when distance only heats up interest, but this only happens when this interest is already there. But it is difficult to win and captivate a man, meetings with whom are rare and irregular. Therefore, you should not waste time with a man with whom you do not have the opportunity to see often. You can only interest someone who sees you often and can communicate.

A man with problems. If you know that the subject of your interest is preoccupied with some serious problems (debts, big troubles at work, illness, big loans that he cannot pay), that is, any big troubles, do not try to captivate such a man - nothing will work. A man can be carried away by someone only if at the moment everything in his life is more or less in order. Major problems will simply prevent him from thinking about something else, and at best he will not notice your interest, at worst - such attention will annoy him. You can sympathize with him, try to help, but you should not try to captivate him, wait until he cope with his problems.

Several rules and ways to captivate a man

So, the subject of your sighs is in the same circle of communication with you and is not burdened with any serious problems. You can proceed to the "siege of this fortress." Whether or not this siege is successful depends almost 100% on you.

Common interests and interest in his person

It is necessary to collect as much information as possible about the subject of your hobby: what he loves, his circle of contacts, his hobbies, how he likes to spend his free time, what he is successful in, and so on. Having collected such a kind of dossier, you can interest him, in passing mentioning your preferences in recreation, music, car brand, books. Yes, about anything, if only it corresponded to his hobbies.

It is necessary to talk about this precisely in passing, unobtrusively, without focusing his attention. It is important to be in the area of ​​his interests so that the man understands that you can discuss everything that interests him, that is, you are a spiritually close person to him.
Men really love it when a sincere interest is shown in their person, interest in their views on life, hobbies, opinions about other people. But there are also taboo topics that you should not show curiosity about, it is impossible to captivate a man by asking about the amount of his salary, about his previous romances, about some of his past failures.

After such curiosity, he will quickly transfer you into the category of an obsessive fool, and the relationship will end happily before it even starts.

Confidence, but not aplomb

A self-confident woman is always able to attract, at least, the attention of a man at first. It is not talking about business or life confidence, but about your conviction in your attractiveness to men. You may not be the brightest and most attractive appearance, but you are sure that:

always arouse male interest,
any man, not the last in your life
You are attractive,
understand men, and will be able to conquer almost anyone
Just do not confuse such confidence with the aplomb based on the fact that her mouth-watering forms and "legs from the ears", coupled with a completely empty head, are able to conquer any man. Such self-confidence, based only on external data, can only arouse fleeting interest. The men of these girls are often called "a doll with the brains of a monkey."

Verbal perception

That a man loves with his eyes is an axiom, but many of us misunderstand it. The man, indeed, at the first meeting evaluates the girl outwardly. But he pays attention to her overall appearance. That is, he is unlikely to notice her expensive jewelry, bright makeup, complex hairstyle, fashionable clothes. Men, as it were, see the whole picture, that is, how the girl looks in all this, her neatness, grooming, taste.

A simple example, he will not pay attention to a skirt and beautiful tights, but will appreciate the slimness of women's legs, will not admire a thoughtful hairstyle, but will see how beautifully the hair frames a woman's face. And so on, but all this can be negative if she does not pay enough attention to her appearance.

Enchanting laughter and enchanting aroma

The fact that a man "loves with his eyes" does not exclude his other senses. In the verbal perception of a woman, in men, both hearing and smell are involved. The way she talks, laughs, also influences the interest of a man in her.

It is impossible to captivate a man to a lady with a sharp commanding voice and a loud unpleasant laugh (this kind of laugh is also called "neighing"). A pleasant, soft, gentle voice, a charming smile, a cheerful facial expression, contagious, but not loud laughter - this is what can attract a man at first sight.
And the unique scent of a woman is also immediately perceived by the representatives of the stronger sex, from the very first minutes of acquaintance. No matter how good a girl looks, if a pungent smell of sweat comes from her, which she tried to drown out with an equally harsh perfume, such amber can immediately alienate a man.

Each person, including the fair sex, has its own individual smell, meaning the smell of a healthy, clean body. Choose a perfume or eau de toilette that goes well with your natural scent, and the man you want to captivate will always be pleased to be with you.

Easy accessibility with a minus sign

When a lady is available almost from the first meetings, it will rather cool the man than help to captivate. This means not only intimacy, accessibility, it will be discussed below, but the availability of a woman, in general.

When she gives the man all her time, attention, admiration, love from the very first meetings, the man quickly loses interest in such a person. Men by nature are hunters, women in their subconsciousness they associate with game that needs to be chased and caught. And if the game itself rushes into the arms of the hunter, what is the interest.

By the way, even when the relationship is already quite serious or legalized, the man will not lose interest and attraction to his soul mate, who continues to imitate his hunt for her, that is, the man should not be sure that he has forever caught and conquered his beautiful game.

Also, easy accessibility in a bitch can alienate a man. It is very easy to captivate a man for one night, but this cannot guarantee a long-term relationship. Intimacy and love begins and ends in the head. And if it affects only the genitals, this is ordinary lust, which does not turn your head and disappears immediately after its satisfaction, leaving nothing either in the heart or in the head.

If a girl gives herself up to a man on the very first day of meeting, he can imagine that she also behaves with all men and perceives her as a "girl for one night". Of course, there are men who do not take into account such "trifles", but when the character and preferences of the partner have not yet been studied, is it possible to vouch for his just such a perception of hasty intimacy.

Admiration and compliments

Most people are partial to praise, admiration for their virtues or actions, and men are no exception. Admire and compliment the man you are trying to captivate, but do it wisely. It should not be empty flattery, not based on anything, or admiration for virtues that your chosen one does not possess.

For example, the most narrow-minded man will understand that a lady, admiring his figure (which is very far from ideal, and he himself knows this very well), is frankly and stupidly flattering him, trying to please. Admiration and compliments should be based on the real merits and achievements of a man, even if you do not consider these merits and achievements to be outstanding.

Admire his computer skills, ability to drive a car, always look neat and stylish, his good manners, his perseverance and determination, for example, in mastering a foreign language, his athletic figure - you can find a lot of everything in any man that he is proud of himself. That is, the virtues that he possesses and which he himself attaches importance to.

Here are six tricks or rules you can use to captivate a man.

These techniques work for almost all men. But all people are different, including men, and it may well be that you want to captivate a man who has some special preferences in choosing women.

For example, there are such slaves of the stomach that for them the most desirable would be a woman who knows how to cook deliciously or some men do not like kind, docile women, give them a person with a slight bitch in character, someone may like a woman, just because others like her men.

To find out and become exactly the kind (or portray that you are), what he likes, the first rule "interest in his person" will help. When you find out what qualities in a woman he likes the most, you will be fully armed and can amaze his imagination with exactly what he loves.
Apply the rules of conquering the stronger sex to the man you want to captivate, and he will not be able to resist your love and purely feminine enterprise.

Take a look at the corner, translate it to the nose, look at the subject of interest, swing the crinoline ...

Previously, the art of seduction was taught from adolescence. And now some girls do not even know how to captivate a man and that for this there are many effective tricks in their natural arsenal.

There are many ways to interest a man you like. And we will not dwell on one thing, we will fire from all the guns! Well, let's start hunting, girls.

Language of the body

We start with eye contact. Believe me, having mastered body language, you will feel like the master of the situation.

• We look at the interested man for a few seconds. Caught a return glance? Smile, try to put maximum warmth into it. Turn away slowly. Repeat after a few minutes. In general, a benevolent smile and cheerful laughter, even if it is not addressed to him, always attract attention. After all, it is easier to establish contact with such people.
• Let's turn to the classics: it always works. A woman straightening her hair with light movements of her hand ... With a thoughtful look, sliding her fingertips along the edge of a wine glass ... Demonstrating her neck, tilting her head back or tilting to her shoulder ... Slightly shaking her foot or shoe ... Barely licking or nibbling lips ... These gestures excite the male consciousness and are able to intrigue no less than outright flirting.
• Train your posture. A naturally straight back attracts attention, and if you tilt your head a little more towards the interlocutor, you will demonstrate a clear interest in him.
• Become his mirror. Repeat some of his movements. But, of course, it shouldn't be very conspicuous. You still act on the subconscious.
• And one more thing: remember that each of us knows how to read at least a little the thoughts of others. Therefore, give freedom to the energy of thought. For example, when passing by an interesting man, look into his eyes and say to yourself what you would like to tell him, for example, that he is adorable and you would like to be in his arms.

Now let's try to attract attention by talking.

You can start with a neutral theme, while at the same time emphasizing that it was he who was chosen to carry out the mission from all those present. Ask to open a bottle of water or drop a scarf in front of him.

• Get to the point faster. Expression of thought is a priority, not trying to impress.
• Your voice should sound gentle, confident, without harsh emotional coloring. Not very loudly, but also not quietly, so that the interlocutor does not have to strain trying to recognize your words.
• How to captivate a man you like: Discussing anything in a negative way is not the best choice. Gossip, bad news, the imperfection of the world - he hardly needs you to discuss these topics. Complaining, telling long, tearful stories about yourself is also not suitable. But if you radiate positive, you will become a welcome interlocutor.
• People, especially men, tend to have a little selfishness. Show wisdom: talk about what is interesting to him. Not versed in the subject? Better yet, ask questions. This is a win-win.
• I’m sure you don’t need to be reminded of this, but still: swear words, slang, ridicule at others are not about you, right? At least at the stage of hunting for a man, this should be avoided.

Appearance - where without it

• Clean, well-groomed hair and nails are a woman's business card that is worthy of attention.
• Do you have a gorgeous figure? Great, highlight only one virtue: either the chest, or the back and shoulders, or the hips. But do it tastefully, don't go overboard. A large side cutout on a long skirt will accentuate long beautiful legs much more effectively than a vulgar short skirt.
• A woman in heels is able to conquer a representative of the opposite sex. With just one remark: a girl should be able to walk on stiletto heels as if it were an extension of her legs, and not circus stilts.

• Bright makeup in the middle of the day may attract male attention, but clearly not the way you want it. Give preference to natural makeup more often, men like it. But if the situation allows, for example, you go to a party in a club, you can choose brighter colors. Red lipstick for males will make your lips stop looking, but remember that this color has many shades. Just pick up yours.

And remember: your shortcomings, especially if you skillfully brighten them up, a man, most likely, will not notice. But he will definitely pay attention to self-doubt.

How to understand that a man is attracted by another woman

The signs that I will list at the very beginning are obviously indicative of sympathy for the other. But nevertheless, we will note them, because it happens that even among the most obvious pessimists, hope dies last and they find a thousand excuses for the fact that he did not show simathy, which, of course, he has only for her.

• The guy is engaging in conversation with you, but the most frequent subject of conversation is another girl.
• If he is distracted while communicating with you and one gets the feeling that he is not with you at all, and does not let go of the phone ... It seems that there, in the smartphone, someone interests him more than you.
• He is not trying to study you, to look you in the eye.
• On your attempts to captivate him, he responds with complete disregard.

Common mistakes

There is a category of women who use the bed as bait or as a manipulation weapon. Why is it wrong? Because you will definitely attract male attention, only then do not be offended that he has a relationship exclusively with your body. Yes, and you will attract obviously narrow-minded guys.

At the same time, it is also not worth getting too used to the role of an inaccessible woman. Treat the man the way you want to be treated. If you want him to do for you what he did not do for others, you also have to keep up. Never danced striptease, but does he like it? Why not give it a try? I suggest watching a video in which a girl teaches the secrets of a beautiful dance for her beloved:

Excessive ambition from scratch is another common mistake. The chances of attracting an interesting partner increase if you constantly improve. Men notice this.

Light shyness is popular with men. But being too shy is a mistake. If you want a relationship for a long time, remember: every man is looking for a confident woman.

Obsession - you wouldn't like that either, right? And he won't be thrilled if you dial his number every 7 minutes, bombard him with pen-poke romance, and meet him before and after work. Show attention, but don't be confused with imposing yourself.

You have the right not to know something, but not having your own opinion means being boring. Agree with a man in everything? No, very few people need it.

One last thing: don't get carried away by married men. As a result, you will be the loser.

It is important to realize: if he gave up too quickly and began to look for a replacement, you need to be grateful that you avoided an affair with a weak man.